Here's another, kinder, expression of my opinion of your post. If you've ever actually had relationships with girls (when you're young) or women (as an adult), in order to score real-world RP you need to be kind, show that you care, connect with them on an emotional and intellectual level (in order to get them in bed or into your life). Relationships are made that way.
It's not just with women, either. If you make male friends, at any age, you've got to relate to them, and if you don't they won't be friends for long. It's not "simping." It's socializing.