Thanks for the answer, the fact that there are male characters in the game is disappointing, I was hoping to avoid all dicks, as long as they do not do anything sexual with anyone however it should be fine, it would still be better to have an option to disable them too, after all if someone like me wants to avoid all males they will be also annoyed that some males are unavoidable, also if you add a futa character then that would be a problem, males I can accept to a degree, even if it would be better to not have them at all, but futas should not exist in the world by default, if futas can not be completely removed then I will not play the game, so the option to have alternative characters would be better, also by NTR I mean other peaple having sex with my girls, which in this game technically means all girls, netori is classified under the cheating tag on this site, I still do not like it but not as much as actual NTR, sharing is also it's own tag, as long as I am the only one that can have sex I should be fine, however even mention of others having sex will annoy me so it would be better to avoid those, also since you asked for toggles I will propose some probably unusual ones, they are mostly personal preferences but maybe others also like the idea of them,
comparation and past experience, avoiding any kind of mention of past partners,
size comments, avoiding things like mentioning how big your dick is or stuff like that, it really annoys me when that happens because it feels like they love your dick and not you.
Other than that and of course the advice to really add the possibility to delete a sex from the game I have no other problems for now, I am very picky when it comes to porn games, my tastes are very specific and most games have things I dislike, still thanks for your time and good luck in your endeavors.