Never been a big fan of Patreon because of their policies and treatment of content providers. Don't know why they need that rigorous ID control, but still same procedure as for registering on bigger shitcoin site. Problem with all this is if the database get hacked and they haven't encrypted the personal data.
The possibility of a hypothetical database leak is a small part of the problem. The developer of INSight of you, judging by circumstantial evidence, is either from Ukraine or Russia. The FB developer is from Russia. I don't know the situation with porn in Ukraine, but in Russia the creation and distribution of pornography is officially forbidden (although viewing and consuming pornographic content for personal use is not). Perhaps, this attitude of the state to porn is an additional factor, due to which a notional developer may be afraid of conditional data leakage and hypothetical falling into the "wrong hands".
I sent dickpic to patreon to identfy myself and they said they can't open such big files
No, for real. I'm pretty sure Patreon can do well without adult gaming industry and that's just a way to get rid of the unbeloved creatures. In the name of security of course
Your point is not without merit, especially in light of the "fake neopuritanism" foisted on society in recent years. However, are you absolutely certain that Patreon is willing (in the long run) to get rid of unloved creatures, i.e. adult content developers? I don't have statistics on Patreon's revenue sources, so of course I can't say with certainty that Patreon lives solely off Adult projects.
In that sense I always remember the relatively recent insolence on the part of OnlyFans, when that company decided to ban the distribution of porn through its platform. Remember what happened next - a large wave of outrage from both models and their subscribers followed, after which OnlyFans guys quickly "stuck their head up their ass" and said that you misunderstood us and everything would remain the same. It seems to me that such a lesson should be taught to Patreon as well, as these guys are getting too cocky, taking advantage of their monopoly position.