Recommending Femdom Finder 2.0

[LAKueiJin]

To me that's the best part of it, those bitches just straight up use MC as much as they want, he's just their toy/tool/slave. I actually less understand the femdom where the women just beat or do stuff that just makes no sense from a sexual satisfaction standpoint, like what are they really getting out of whipping or a strap on or just never having any sex whatsoever? If you're going to dominate someone sexually isn't the point to get sexual favors/service? Is getting your foot kissed and sucked really doing anything? That's more something the guy wants to do.

Good point, but isn't pissing in the sub's mounth, or farting in their face, both favourite fetishes of Nikociant, also equivalent to foot kissing/sucking or strap-on stuff? Aren't they the same kind of fetishes, stuff that you would want as a sub but that the mistress isn't getting any direct pleasure from? Seems to me you are singling out fetishes you don't like (pegging, foot worship, whipping etc) in a separate category from some you presumably like more (the pissing or farting content which is so common with Leah, Zoe, Camilla etc), even though at the end of the day they are exactly the same thing - fetishes where the dominant female only gets sexual gratification from the power play, from the sub's whimpers/pathetic expression/pleading/dutiful obedience etc or in other non-direct non-physical ways. At the end of the day the only way for the mistress to get direct sexual gratification is either pussy worship or regular sex, and I doubt that many of us would like to play games that only contain that...

Also, I actually like how openly and self-gratifyingly 'those bitches' use MC in Dominant witches, but I'd like it if there was more variety to the scenes/more foreplay/more dialogue etc, cause it feels somewhat robotic and boring when the mistress tells you "kneel, kiss my feet, drink my piss, lick my pussy to orgasm" the 10th time, and at least to me she feels way more like the fantasy of a submissive male than an actual dominant woman when she does that... (eg it's poor character writing) It's like a lot of the humiliation scenes are exactly the same scene from a slightly different angle and in a different place, but where MC just performs the same routine again and again, and the game barely acknowledges at all the relationship between him and the mistress developing in a submissive direction, except for the various endings. (Karlsson's gambit, Neuvau, Tower of Trample and even very old stuff like "the enslavement wars" or "Love dealers" handled relational progression much better)

I like Dominant Witches, but I think you are ignoring many of its negative aspects, just like Innocience pointed above how I was ignoring many of the negative aspects of "Mistresses of the forest"... It's a good game and it's perfectly fine even if it's your favourite femdom game, but it does have its shortcomings.

BTW, how do you only have 7 comments? I remember seeing you on f95 even, like, decades ago!

 

[Akassss]

I got scared away by gay and NTR Cuckolding and/or forced bi/gay is not my cup of tea, tho it seems the game perhaps should be on the list. If no one will write anything about it, I guess I'll check it myself.

I played this game and to be honest it's pretty bad though.
but it should indeed be in the list!

 

[Mister_M]

Mini update:
- game Extra Life is now called Goodbye Eternity;
- Hunter of Sin - status changed from 'in dev' to 'abandonded'.

Not a great update so just this pic:

It's a graphic from the pulp title Two Complete Detective Books; this drawing is accompanying synopses of novels Too Fair To Die by Cleve F. Adams and Compliments of a Fiend by Fredric Brown. You can read it

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if you're interested.

 

[Mister_M]

Anyone tested https://f95zone.to/threads/hardcore-femdom-v0-1-mina492.108040/ ?

I remember this game now! It's by the dev who said I'm the enemy of femdom (or smth like that) and that I'm destroying femdom games . The game was not in the Finder cause Aseratrix (who was 1st one accused by the dev of destroying femdom games) deemed it not worthy, since it was couple-dom and not femdom.

 

[repesorsa]

Out of my long list of games I've meant to try once they get a little further in development, today I checked out

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. It's a cute little adventure game where in the intro you enter some vague "experiments" and go through an MtF body transformation, with the main game being a roguelite where you enter one of a few "tests", gradually lose health and resistance to events while exploring, lose and earn some upgrade points, repeat, then once you have some idea what you're doing and have got your stats up, eventually win.

Currently there are four tests (with

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), two of which I didn't try yet and didn't sound especially interesting based on tags, a cave where you get violated by flora and mind controlled by fungi (not the kind of MC I was hoping for), and a dungeon ruled by three succubi.

It's not much of a "femdom game" and I'm not suggesting to put it on the list, but if you're in the mood for trying out... you know, just a game, I did enjoy the little bit of spice in The Dungeon, especially the pink succ's bad ending.

 

[J1215]

New game (tagged Femdom): "My Gym Mommy Treats Me Like A Kid!"

https://f95zone.to/threads/my-gym-mommy-treats-me-like-a-kid-v1-0-0-peach-punch.142999/

 

[baxtus]

New game (tagged Femdom): "My Gym Mommy Treats Me Like A Kid!"

https://f95zone.to/threads/my-gym-mommy-treats-me-like-a-kid-v1-0-0-peach-punch.142999/

Calls her "Gym Mommy"

Gets treated like a kid

If only there was some connection

 

[subwien]

Anyone tested https://f95zone.to/threads/hardcore-femdom-v0-1-mina492.108040/ ?

I got scared away by gay and NTR Cuckolding and/or forced bi/gay is not my cup of tea, tho it seems the game perhaps should be on the list. If no one will write anything about it, I guess I'll check it myself.

I played it to the last update, but not all content thats in it.
Some Arts are not that bad and i give dev credits for trying to be creative in her/his own way.
That beeing sayed, the story is all over the place. Switches from one Scene to another one, are often realy terrible.
As for included kinks: there are many differents inside (you name it - it will most likeley be included), but even some that are realy far away from what floats my boat. Like, People wo got Arms/legs beeing cut off.

To make it short and simple: it should be on the list, but i wouldnt recommend it at this point.

 

[Mister_M]

Miniscule update:
- VN Zone - status changed from 'in dev' to 'abandonded'.

 

[J1215]

An update of the game "Confined with Goddesses" has been released:

https://f95zone.to/threads/confined-with-goddesses-v0-3-0-eroniverse.60506/

 

[Z - Reborn]

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Ok, this is just about one the hottest things I have ever read, but it also shows how easy it is to lose a grasp on reality partaking a bit too much in what we're into. For any of you who pursues femdom IRL be careful with who and how you do it. One side is obviously more vulnerable than the other, and a forever ruined relationship with one, or worse, all women is just a wrong decision away.

EDIT: turns out it's fan-fiction, which is for the best, and frankly the ending, which I just read, does give it away. I would still recommend being careful though.

 

[jasonfz250]

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Ok, this is just about one the hottest things I have ever read, but it also shows how easy it is to lose a grasp on reality partaking a bit too much in what we're into. For any of you who pursues femdom IRL be careful with who and how you do it. One side is obviously more vulnerable than the other, and a forever ruined relationship with one, or worse, all women is just a wrong decision away.

Reading that made me feel bad for the boyfriend ngl

 

[Z - Reborn]

Reading that made me feel bad for the boyfriend ngl

That's why I would never do this stuff in person. Well that, and too much pride.

He was still young though, hopefully that episode didn't forge his life moving forward as much as it forged hers.

 

[Z - Reborn]

It's fiction, but I agree, femdom doesn't really work irl. The woman can never respect the guy after. No matter how progressive and liberal and equal we pretend things are, real life just doesn't work that way. Women want and seek a superior man, when things get tough all women expect a guy to be able to handle everything, that's just how people are wired.

Agreed. And frankly I don't believe maledom would work either. Yes, femdom is an even wider departure from reality, but the truth is that respect should go both ways, and as much as we can try and keep certain things to the bedroom, a loss a respect is natural.

Also obviously the scat stuff doesn't work, Callipygia loved writing those stories and whenever it gets to that part you know it's pure fiction (the setups may or may not be real, he claimed before he purposely blends that and writes that way). Scat irl would result in serious illness and likely death. There's no magic way to prevent that. I don't like scat or fart in fiction either but sometimes I'll read it.

So you know the writer/interviewer? It's not real? Well that's a weight off my chest, though I won't deny that it did sound somewhat plausible. As I said, a loss of respect is natural.

Also regarding scat: I'm no expert as frankly I'm not into it myself, but there are people clearly partaking in it.

AI know some people pay for the role play, but to me that's a waste of money and silly, clearly you're still creating the scenario.

Agreed. If I pay a domina she's the one servicing me at the end of the day, so it would just make the experience meaningless, at least for me.

 

[Opal Games]

Just as a bit of friendly context to your discussion, and a very well-intentioned recommended reading suggesting

The story you posted, which is very hot and very well written so thanks for sharing, is on an erotic fiction website and is very clearly fiction…so please take a moment to consider how useful it is as evidence that BDSM, power play/exchange relationships cannot work ‘in real life’.

Specific to what you’re discussing, I would strongly recommend getting hold of a copy of these two books. They are academic studies, but are very well presented and accessible to anyone regardless of background. If you’re after something more casual and quick, there’s a metric fuckton of easily accessible examples on the website FetLife and anywhere elsewhere kink practitioners have online communities.

• Playing on the Edge: Sadomasochism, Risk, and Intimacy, by Staci Newmahr. The author spent a couple of years in a town in the US that has a significant and very active kink community that ranges from people in fulltime power exchange relationships, to those who engage less hardcore. Lots of examples of how these work and the processes involved (lots of communication and constant checking on consent and aftercare, so less hot to use in erotic fiction )

• Dominatrix: Gender, Eroticism Dominatrix: Gender, Eroticism, and Control in the Dungeon, by Danielle J. Lindemann. This is another ground-breaking study into kink, but looks specifically at the professional dominatrix. It has some great surveys and accounts, and goes into the scripting process you talk about, but has examples that differ from the assumptions you’ve made.

Basically, people really need to realise porn, erotic storis/games, etc. are fiction and very often intentionally created by magnifying and exaggerating elements of sexuality way beyond what is the lived experience of ‘real life’; if you’re making assumptions of ‘real life’ sexuality from this, there’s a very good chance they are going to be way off.


I’m not saying this to be a dick and call anyone out, and this is far from an issue only occurring on this site (think on the growing and real issue many young people have in their perceptions of sexuality gained via porn).


Those of us subscribing to this thread love F/m to whatever varying degrees, and we all consume F/m porn/erotica; this means sometimes we should make a point of addressing misinformation when we see it, even when it may be unintended and not meant as such.


Also, regarding the scat comments. If scat was that harmful almost no professional sex worker would offer it, as they would be open to prosecution for manslaughter (or whatever variation of this is most appropriate). Also, there would be no scat porn as it would essentially be snuff porn, and the participants and producers would either be dead or prosecuted Is scat a risky sexual activity? Yes, it can be. Can it be harmful? Yes, it can be. However, it is normally only so when the person giving has a disease or illness, or if the scat somehow gets into blood stream of the receiver. If you manage the risks responsibly, it’s no more risky than say unprotected sex. You can never eliminate all risk in scat play…but then what activity in this life can you?

 

[Princess Groundhog]

There absolutely is real femdom (and maledom) out there where people have actual relationships and lifestyles like that. I know people and have done it a bit myself. But the key is always mutual trust and respect, otherwise it’s just abuse. I can’t speak to poop, but that seems like a very rare and extreme kink for real life BDSM couples.

 

[Nikociant]

Hi, all. I recently started working on a new femdom game^^. First release probably in February/March
more info on discord or here - https://f95zone.to/threads/dominas-of-the-forsaken-planet-development-thread.143170/

 

[J1215]

An update of the game "Femdom Wife Game - Zoe" has been released:

https://f95zone.to/threads/femdom-wife-game-zoe-v1-59f8-femdomwifegame.73129/

 

[FemDom Fables Studios]

For scat, the way it's done is there are 3 cleanings first, and then they inject/pump in...cake batter. I forgot what it's called for the cleanings, but they basically put warm water in and clear everything out. You can actually get this at certain health specialty services, they also will check the waste for health issues. So actually if you see it in a video it's not actual shit, which again, will make you severely ill and likely kill you. Even then it's very niche, very regulated, and there's still a lot of health checks and concerns.

There is nobody that actually does real scat. It's just not biologically possible.

There are many, especially amateurs, who do the real thing

 

[Z - Reborn]