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I thought it would just be femdom but apparently not because the VAST MAJORITY stuff I keep finding is simply not my type at all. Such as pegging, sissification, no sexual pleasure for male, foot fetish, bondage, hardcore domina stuff, etc. etc. Should I not look for femdom? How do I find stuff like in my examples given?
That's a tough one. Consistently strong, career-focused and well written female characters are rather rare in porn games.
Also it sounds to me like you're more looking for a strong story with "life established" (not sure if that's a good wording) characters first. The vast majority of femdom games are about an already subbie male MC or someone that's driven to become subbie by their low life circumstance. The male leads are usually lacking in character, backbone or any sort of career success.

That being said I took a look over the list and here's a few titles I think might meet your criteria:
Sanguine Rose could be a good fit. You're a male mercanary leader that captured a dominant, female general that is using her charms to turn everyone against themselves to escape.

Does it have to be a story from the perspective of a male MC? For your described arche-type of a character with femdom scenes I can recommend Luna's Fall From Grace. Basically play it dominant; you'll get to a scene with a bank director (iirc) that's basically just like you described. Just be wary - your female lead is not untouchable in the story even if you go full on dominance.

About your described female archetype and described scenario: Pale Carnations has two to three female characters that could be up your alley. It's not focused on femdom though and also degrades said women harshly (but it makes sense in context), so just be warned.

Karlsson's Gambit has a lot of dominant women that step over bodies to get what they want. But I don't know if that's necessarily what you're looking for - the powerplay and intrigue is excellent. If you play a dominant MC a couple of women will have the hots for you in the hopes of rising the company alongside you (but little sex action so far) - so this may or may not be something for you.
 
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Does someone know of games with Dominant or sly women where the MC is NOT dominant but instead is being taken advantage of by sex or sex acts? The women use sex acts to either get ahead or get someone else down. They know of the male horniness and abuse it to the fullest. They aren't dumb bimbos nor brutish dominas.. Examples: a hot secretary sucking boss dick for promotion/raise, a trophy wife coaxing an unfavorable prenup, a hot chick draining an ugly or old man out of his savings, etc.

Examples of snippets from games where something like this happens as I want:
Seducing and coercing MC into giving her what she needs to accomplish like Victoria in City of Broken Dreamers
Seducing MC to get knocked up to get into his money like Adriana in Beginnings
Slut tricking and seducing MC to get promoted like Grace in High-Rise Climb
Lazy worker using sex acts to get promoted and many other benefits like Belinda from Boring Days

I thought it would just be femdom but apparently not because the VAST MAJORITY stuff I keep finding is simply not my type at all. Such as pegging, sissification, no sexual pleasure for male, foot fetish, bondage, hardcore domina stuff, etc. etc. Should I not look for femdom? How do I find stuff like in my examples given?
Look for tags such as "vaginal sex", "romance" and "blowjob", even "reverse rape" in addition to "female domination". That way its almost guaranteed that the femdom will be mostly tame, inconsequential or based on traditional sexual elements. I would also say that the narrative element you seek may not be particularly dependent on "femdom", I would open a thread in "seeking" and describe the narrative dynamic you are after, because that sort of thing can be found in a wide range of genres, and that way you may get responses from a broader demographic playing all sorts of games which may fit your criteria.

I don't find those games particularly better written [very few porn games, regardless of genre are literary artworks], or the presence of "backbone" - to use the terminology of the user above - more endearing or narrative-wise more interesting.
This thread is mostly about classic femdom, which can include any sort of characters and have a wide range of narrative quality [potentially up to and including literary masterpieces], but excludes most vanilla sex and elements where the females are not explicitly dominant.
 
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Mistress comrade Kim Yo-Jong agrees! :LOL: I would... doubt it myself for several reasons - I think the K-pop industry, which is very much run like a dystopian corporate massive business by a few agencies in South Korea (as in, most kpop bands are never even allowed to write their own lyrics and there are massive teams working on the concept for every music video), figured that the aesthetic of dominant female idols sells with western audiences they are trying to export their music to, (you could see Blackpink already dabbling into light dominant aesthetics in vids from 4 years ago like , and they're the most popular girl band in SK) but I watched plenty of dramas from both China and Korea and in the past worked with 2 Chinese women and a Korean one, and both from the dramas and IRL experience Chinese women seem to me less reserved, more direct and less afraid to boss you around or take charge... (tbh one of them was my boss at a previous job, whereas the Korean one was just a colleague, but very few Chinese girls act meek or shy comparatively to how many Japanese or Korean ones seem to)

I've also seen some South Korean accounts commenting supportively on a few radfem vids on Youtube in the past few years, so I'm at least pretty certain that more women are becoming independent or supportive of feminist ideas these days in SK, so less repressed sexuality and more of them embracing more outwardly dominant attitudes are sure to follow eventually...
Regarding this subject, situation in South Korea is not that great in this regard it seems: .

While China has more than 26 per cent of CFO positions held by women to a global average of 15.8 per cent and about 6.4 per cent of China’s CEOs are female.

Also, I don't remember if you said smth about voice acting in Slave High or someone else did, but I also found the voice acting in Slave High to be quite off putting and I turned it off. Mei just sounds completely different than she did in my head :p

Wouldn't that be racist? :unsure:
Not more, or maybe even less, than a pic of white person torturing a black one. But I hope in the erotic context we're all here driven by our sexual desires and we're free from any racial prejudices.
 

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Regarding this subject, situation in South Korea is not that great in this regard it seems: .

While China has more than 26 per cent of CFO positions held by women to a global average of 15.8 per cent and about 6.4 per cent of China’s CEOs are female.

Also, I don't remember if you said smth about voice acting in Slave High or someone else did, but I also found the voice acting in Slave High to be quite off putting and I turned it off. Mei just sounds completely different than she did in my head
Did you know that, by comparison, Japan is also below 10% and India is the lowest on Earth? (in terms of percentage of high managerial positions held by women - I think it's around 3 or 4% for India) Another interesting thing is that China even used to be higher than the US and any country in Europe (and on Earth for that matter) for a while as it had (so more than by men) back in 2013 according to the Guardian! From what I heard that percentage dropped slightly in the past 9 years, but they're still leading by far in Asia and have comparable numbers to countries like the US and France. (which is much better than even Central or Eastern Europe for example)

And yes, it was me that complained that Mei's voice sounds like Twilight Sparkle's, and not at all how she sounds in my mind either! :LOL:
 

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Did you know that, by comparison, Japan is also below 10% and India is the lowest on Earth? (in terms of percentage of high managerial positions held by women - I think it's around 3 or 4% for India) Another interesting thing is that China even used to be higher than the US and any country in Europe (and on Earth for that matter) for a while as it had (so more than by men) back in 2013 according to the Guardian! From what I heard that percentage dropped slightly in the past 9 years, but they're still leading by far in Asia and have comparable numbers to countries like the US and France. (which is much better than even Central or Eastern Europe for example)

And yes, it was me that complained that Mei's voice sounds like Twilight Sparkle's, and not at all how she sounds in my mind either! :LOL:
Interesting.

In terms of women/men ratio it's also maybe worth mentioning in the context of huangmei xi that these all-female plays after 1949 started to be more often played by male casts (plus female centred wuxias bacame limited in terms of production to Hong Kong and Taiwan, though China was producing propaganda war/action/drama pictures centred on women); obviously politics played a role in that, so it makes one wonder how the position of women in China would look like if their politics would evolve in a different direction.
 

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Regarding this subject, situation in South Korea is not that great in this regard it seems: .

While China has more than 26 per cent of CFO positions held by women to a global average of 15.8 per cent and about 6.4 per cent of China’s CEOs are female.

Also, I don't remember if you said smth about voice acting in Slave High or someone else did, but I also found the voice acting in Slave High to be quite off putting and I turned it off. Mei just sounds completely different than she did in my head :p


Not more, or maybe even less, than a pic of white person torturing a black one. But I hope in the erotic context we're all here driven by our sexual desires and we're free from any racial prejudices.
China does some things really well, nobody can deny it, even if as a typical Europoid it would be hard for me to go to work in a uniform and start it via some physical education in the courtyard...I would need a serious time in some re-education camp I am afraid. :cry:
 
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Interesting.

In terms of women/men ratio it's also maybe worth mentioning in the context of huangmei xi that these all-female plays after 1949 started to be more often played by male casts (plus female centred wuxias bacame limited in terms of production to Hong Kong and Taiwan, though China was producing propaganda war/action/drama pictures centred on women); obviously politics played a role in that, so it makes one wonder how the position of women in China would look like if their politics would evolve in a different direction.
I think in part China started valuing women not only based on Engels [who really had a positive female emancipation view, but never ever implemented anywhere], but because they woke up one day and realized they barely have any left :ROFLMAO:
 
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I think in part China started valuing women not only based on Engels [who really had a positive female emancipation view, but never ever implemented anywhere], but because they woke up one day and realized they barely have any left :ROFLMAO:
Well, they're 48.71% of a population of 1.4 billion, so that's still more women than the entirety population of Europe combined... (minus Russia maybe) :unsure: I'd say they have plenty of them! :LOL:
 
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Well, they're 48.71% of a population of 1.4 billion, so that's still more women than the entirety population of Europe combined... (minus Russia maybe) :unsure: I'd say they have plenty of them! :LOL:
But typically females are 50+% of a population. But yeah. Am I remembering it wrong that China used to have this traditional belief that boy kids worth more? And they practiced a form of female infanticide??? :unsure: Not to rain on our parade of appreciating whats good there now, but you know, it doesn't sound good.
 
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But typically females are 50+% of a population. But yeah. Am I remembering it wrong that China used to have this traditional belief that boy kids worth more? And they practiced a form of female infanticide??? :unsure: Not to reign on our parade of appreciating whats good there now, but you know, it doesn't sound good.
100% - it happened during the 1 child policy era and especially during the 80s and 90s. People could only have 1 child so a lot of conservative families in China, if their first child was female, would abandon her so as to be able to have a male child who would pass on the family's surname.

It was all traditionalist bullcrap that lead to infanticide or at best baby girls being raised in orphanages or adopted abroad, and it's probably the main reason the female population there is below 50%, (only about 2-3% of the families in China did this most likely, hence why the demographic sexual distribution is not too unbalanced, but that's still a lot of abandoned girls and a terrible crime which the CPC could've definitely prevented, at least in great part) but, if I am to make light of a very heavy, awful and tragic topic with a little humour, joke's on the stupid families that did this, because now there's a Caili (bride price) in the provinces which were most affected by this phenomenon, with husbands and their families being expected to pay even as high as 75k US dollars as dowry to be allowed to marry a pretty and educated girl to her family, (the price can be lower if she's not considered attractive or succesful, but it's still usually a fortune by Chinese standards) so all the families that cared so much about passing their name and having a boy are now paying a... hefty price for their past misogyny! Quite literally... :LOL:

Who said there isn't karma in this world? (and I know this doesn't sound female empowering at all, as it's esentially a price paid to the bride's family, not to her, so I'm not thrilled about this practice or anything, but I just find it poetically just that anyone who engaged in that horrendous practice decades ago is now paying a very high price for it, at least financially...)
 
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But typically females are 50+% of a population. But yeah. Am I remembering it wrong that China used to have this traditional belief that boy kids worth more? And they practiced a form of female infanticide??? :unsure: Not to reign on our parade of appreciating whats good there now, but you know, it doesn't sound good.
Yeah, unfortunately women didn't have that good. In the past only men could educate, pass exams or even travel by themselves (I think thats one of the reasons of the classic woman-dressed-as-a-man trope in Chinese films).

Speaking of female infanticide I am not 100% sure, but "Although infanticide and child abandonment were worldwide phenomena from antiquity down to the nineteenth century when massive numbers of children were still being abandoned in Europe, China was unique in targeting girls almost exclusively. Yet despite its persistence for two thousand years, little has been published on a practice that is deeply sensitive within China and little understood by outsiders. [...] noted historian D. E. Mungello describes the causes and continuation of female infanticide since 1650 despite efforts by Confucian moralists, Buddhist teachings, government officials, and even imperial edicts to stop the practice." BTW that's from Drowning Girls in China: Female Infanticide in China since 1650 book and now I downloaded it because of you and I'm going to read it next week.
 

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Speaking of female infanticide I am not 100% sure, but "Although infanticide and child abandonment were worldwide phenomena from antiquity down to the nineteenth century when massive numbers of children were still being abandoned in Europe, China was unique in targeting girls almost exclusively. Yet despite its persistence for two thousand years, little has been published on a practice that is deeply sensitive within China and little understood by outsiders. [...] noted historian D. E. Mungello describes the causes and continuation of female infanticide since 1650 despite efforts by Confucian moralists, Buddhist teachings, government officials, and even imperial edicts to stop the practice."
I did not want to talk about this from a historical pre-20th century perspective, because that opens a huge can of worms, but your comment is pretty spot on. The practice of infanticide especially of girls was actually rather common in all of East Asia (not just China) in preindustrial times, mostly because, as you said, only men could take the imperial examinations, become generals or bureucrats and inherit land, and, while Asian religions were a lot more tolerant than Abrahamic ones in most things, (eg they never burnt witches or heretics and usually freedom of opinion about philosophy and religion was the norm more than the exception in Asia) Asian religions usually do not consider it a capital crime that sends you to hell to abort a child you cannot offer a good life to, even after birth (unlike Abrahamic ones).

In fact, it was often considered the moral thing to do that as opposed to sentencing the child to a life of poverty or lack of opportunity (hence they even did it to male heirs if they thought they had enough already), and I remeber there was this remark by a travelling Japanese scholar who visited the Portuguese colony of Nagasaki in the 1500s, where he was surprised by "how many children there were in the town", and it did not dawn upon him that the reason for that was the fact that Christianity basically banned abortions, so the Japanese Christians living in Portuguese-governed Nagasaki wound up keeping a lot more children than their Shinto and Buddhist counterparts in the rest of the Shogunate... I do not think that historically this phenomenon happened more preponderently in China than in other East Asian polities like Dai Viet, Korea, Japan etc, but I haven't researched the matter specifically.
 
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