Allow me to step in
About the game content
The only two core fetishes that will always be there are chastity & pussy worship. Those two are mandatory and will always be there for all the girlfriends. Althrough it is possible to reduce the amount of chastity via the game mechanics.
Alongside that, any other fetish, once the game has evolved into a complete "sandbox", will be optional: first you do something in the game that gives a hint to your girlfriend, then she takes the initiative to force the fetish on you.
Once the fetish is introduced (if it ever is), it's up to you to dive in or not using the various game mechanics. So (eventually), you can end up with a foot fetish/pussy worship setup, or a hotwive and pegging setup, etc.
The game is (will be) really about your relationship with your girlfriend, I want it to be as unscripted as possible while still having an authentic storyline.
In about 2-3 updates, the game should be sufficiently fleshed out and it should start to really feel that way.
About NTR content
This has been discussed several times on the Discord, let me sum it up.
In Femdom Wife Game, the content is not really "NTR". The word always disturbed me, it's used on F95 but I'm not sure why. The game will contain
cuckolding content.
The main difference is that there is nothing about having your girlfriend stolen from you. The correct perspective is your girlfriend using a bull for her own satisfaction and in order to tease and/or humiliate you.
The bull in FWG is a tool in the MC<->girlfriend relationship and will have little to no impact by himself. Anything narrative related will go through the girlfriend (even if the bull is visible in-game), you can consider the bull has some kind of living dildo.
And yes, it can be fully disabled in the settings menu.