I haven't played this for a while, but my problem wasn't exactly that the game has chosen the netorase direction instead of the netorare, but the way as the story practically jumps headlong into the whole genre. Once you unlock the cuckold kink, from a loving wife Zoe instantly turns into a nymphomaniac whore, and sits on the nearest cock she find..
There is no warm-up in the story to help us a bit tune into the genre. But I also miss some gradation and any kind of relationship-building between Zoe and the bull (like just inviting him at first, then dinner together etc) through which we could experience that certain blueball feeling..
Although the dev didn't want to give for the bull too much of a role in the story to avoid him overshadow the MC, but this way the wife doesn't go through any corruption phase which would help to make the genre a little more authentic. In other words, a married woman, or any women shouldn't fuck with others that easly and fast as it happens in this game.
Anyway, I'm aware of that you hate the non-consensual cheating, but reading your replies I feel you are more into vanilla, and those kind of conditions where the relationship is full of with harmony and not threatened by anyone. But the essence of NTR in any case is to break this "perfect balance" by someone. Far from me to being offensive since you were nice as well, but if you literally stating that the feeling of jealousy is exactly you want to avoid, then I'm not sure if any variety from this genre was invented for you.