I am in.
There is a certain fascination about being a women.
Of course, in sex games, you experience first hand everything. Abuse, love, whatever comes around.
If you are a male, and you play as a male, you will be getting a one way experience. In a game you can, in theory, experience the opposite. Like you, i played most games, if possible, as a female. Bethesda games, Mass Effect but also others.
Then came modding. And yes, i really loved it.
With sex games, its a little more difficult since i want to experience certain scenarios. This maybe not a turn on for everyone. But i think you appreciate being a female a little more.
I always admired females. They get better cloths, makeup, attention. Or the opposite, the ugly side off life.
So yes, i usually play as female as well. In most games i like to be the female hero that defeats them all. And look sexy.