Yeah, I agree. I understand getting frustrated when a character does something unbelievably stupid, but falling for a crypto scam... it happens all the time. And it isn't just the poor guy 'loser' stereotypes either, competent wealthy people fall for dumb shit too. Hell, rich people's dumb ideas usually do far more damage than some drunk guy in a trailer park.
Well, you can approach a VN from the wrong angle, or just fail to understand or vibe with what it's going for. Like I said, a character falling for a crypto scam at such a young age is an entirely normal thing to do. I don't understand why this would push someone's buttons so hard. It does a good job setting up the story, and it makes for a nice arc for our character; the arc doesn't happen in real time, but with each time jump, you see how it's affected him, or how he's changed as a person. It's a very typical plot & character progression and it's relatable, I just don't see the issue.
Oh yeah, I agree with you mostly. I just don't think either is necessarily the 'real you', as in, it's static and never-changing. The 'real you' is whoever you're being in the moment; in other words, people can grow and change and learn from mistakes. I guess I'm probably not saying anything you don't already agree with, maybe I took you too literally.