TigerWolfe

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According to their therapist it's normal, unless you want to call women who suffered abuse liars, up to you.
Ah yes the rhetorical technique of claiming I'm calling these women only you know liars, if I don't completely buy the things only you've said...

I don't doubt that it happens to some women, but normal in the vein of a therapist speaking to a trauma victim and normal in the context of 50% of the population have strongly different connotations.

As presented by you it seemed like a blanket statement, traumatized woman = lover of rough sex. As probably presented by the alleged therapist to your friends, a sexually traumatized woman being into rough sex isn't an abnormal outcome and falls within the range of expected outcomes. Another normal outcome, based off of my equally anecdotal experience is that they only want gentle and compassionate lovers who don't remind them of the traumatic events in their past.

If you know your partner has suffered abuse its probably safer to err on the side of caution, and maybe have a conversation with her before attempting to plow her into the floorboards while choking her out. I'd recommend the conversation with any partner honestly...
 
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Dr. Mick

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Mason was born female, there is no way around it. You can be polite to her/him/xer or not, but that's social manners not biology.
This is the only thing I will say about this before you go on the ignore list:
  • We, as humans, interact with each other on a social level.
  • Gender is how we identify socially.
  • Whatever gender someone identifies as is entirely up to them; not you.
  • Using any other pronouns or classification is disrespectful, rude, and wrong.
Whatever sex someone was assigned at birth is relevant to only them, their doctors, and their sexual partners.
Their gender is how you, as a part of human society, are going to know them, and should respect.

Be well, and farewell.
 

Joshy92

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Mar 25, 2021
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Anyone else hoping for a valentine's day themed update one day?

Like if on the good guy path we can choose a LI who we can ask out on a date and buy them flowers or something.
I don't know how a scene like that would go on the other paths though maybe he forces the LI or something?
 
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NeegNog

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This is the only thing I will say about this before you go on the ignore list:
  • We, as humans, interact with each other on a social level.
  • Gender is how we identify socially.
  • Whatever gender someone identifies as is entirely up to them; not you.
  • Using any other pronouns or classification is disrespectful, rude, and wrong.
Whatever sex someone was assigned at birth is relevant to only them, their doctors, and their sexual partners.
Their gender is how you, as a part of human society, are going to know them, and should respect.

Be well, and farewell.
i dont mind gays as long as they keep their stinky anus away from me ; also trans as long as they dont have a dick
 

armond

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Ah yes the rhetorical technique of claiming I'm calling these women only you know liars, if I don't completely buy the things only you've said...

I don't doubt that it happens to some women, but normal in the vein of a therapist speaking to a trauma victim and normal in the context of 50% of the population have strongly different connotations.

As presented by you it seemed like a blanket statement, traumatized woman = lover of rough sex. As probably presented by the alleged therapist to your friends, a sexually traumatized woman being into rough sex isn't an abnormal outcome and falls within the range of expected outcomes. Another normal outcome, based off of my equally anecdotal experience is that they only want gentle and compassionate lovers who don't remind them of the traumatic events in their past.

If you know your partner has suffered abuse its probably safer to err on the side of caution, and maybe have a conversation with her before attempting to plow her into the floorboards while choking her out. I'd recommend the conversation with any partner honestly...
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Dogorti

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This is the only thing I will say about this before you go on the ignore list:
  • We, as humans, interact with each other on a social level.
  • Gender is how we identify socially.
  • Whatever gender someone identifies as is entirely up to them; not you.
  • Using any other pronouns or classification is disrespectful, rude, and wrong.
Whatever sex someone was assigned at birth is relevant to only them, their doctors, and their sexual partners.
Their gender is how you, as a part of human society, are going to know them, and should respect.

Be well, and farewell.
This is true but people prefer to be assholes and live upset by how others live. Sad stuff.
 

Dessolos

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Jul 25, 2017
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Anyone else hoping for a valentine's day themed update one day?

Like if on the good guy path we can choose a LI who we can ask out on a date and buy them flowers or something.
I don't know how a scene like that would go on the other paths though maybe he forces the LI or something?
that would be a wonderful idea could be a different date for every LI tho some might see that as a waste of dev time since really wouldn't move the story forward. but I would love it. I think I would pick Risa as I personally feel she needs the most love out of all the LI right now given her situation
 
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NeegNog

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Jul 21, 2021
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Anyone else hoping for a valentine's day themed update one day?

Like if on the good guy path we can choose a LI who we can ask out on a date and buy them flowers or something.
I don't know how a scene like that would go on the other paths though maybe he forces the LI or something?
cant imagine it...evil guy would make ashe eat the flowers like a cow :cry: maybe on the corruption path
 

Joshy92

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Mar 25, 2021
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that would be a wonderful idea could be a different date for every LI tho some might see that as a waste of dev time since really wouldn't move the story forward. but I would love it. I think I would pick Risa as I personally feel she needs the most love out of all the LI right now given her situation
Yeah, I was thinking no matter who we choose the date happens in the same location but the dialogue is different depending on if we're fuck buddies or in a serious relationship.

Can you imagine Mason sitting in a fancy restaurant? He would probably feel out of place but Guy could show how much he means to him and stuff.
Plus I just want to see Mason with a big smile sitting across from me with roses in the centre of the table.
 
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