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God I wish I was a 60+ story tall office building rn...
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What "Futa on Everything" truly means!
(hope this doesnt violate any rules here. credit:touhou)
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When will it be released publicly?New Passion in Town140 page
No, i heve seen some in the page of naughty machinima but nothing more
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This is a sorta-relevant thread for a question that has bothered me for a while: what's up with the accusation that one is 'fetishing' transwomen? I've seen it a bunch of times now and nobody ever clarifies...
I like it when a woman has a pussy - "That's okay!"
I like it when a man has a dick - "That's okay!"
I like it when a woman has a dick - "You are fetishing transwomen. Stop being a transphobic."
Why is one acceptable, but the other is 'to fetishize'?
I like it when a woman has a pussy - "That's okay!"
I like it when a man has a dick - "That's okay!"
I like it when a woman has a dick - "You are fetishing transwomen. Stop being a transphobic."
Why is one acceptable, but the other is 'to fetishize'?
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Futas also have vagina(hermaphrodite,balls are optional/debatable)
,so no trannies aren't being fetishied.P.S.-Further discussions on this topic might force me to reveal my "POWER LEVEL" xD
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Because trans people have a history of being marginalized and abused, so when people started fapping to them, many got offended, because it implied that there's only one way for trans people to become accepted: through being porn actors, and by extension, a sexual fetish. Many trans people don't fit this mold, so of course they got outraged. Then various human rights advocates joined in, and so it became a no-no to like chicks with dicks. I imagine another reason was that a bunch of creeps misbehaved. You know how some people only want sex from others but don't care to know them as individuals? For a trans person, who's been ridiculed or abused for a good part of their life, it's even more painful than for a non-trans person.
After all, not everyone can accept the fact that a trans woman can be both like
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. That said, liking transwomen is fine, so long as you can differentiate between porn and real life (which a lot of people apparently can't, and not only with transwomen, as it turns out).
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But this is the same kind of deflection I've seen from others. Bringing up the broader historical context, but not clarifying what the accusation actually means. Why am I 'fetishizing' the transwoman, but not the cisman? Does the term 'fetishize' have any meaning beyond spiteful moralizing?
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In general, the word 'fetish' means an inanimate object that is believed to be inhabited by a spirit or deity, and as such, used for worship or reverence of said spirit or deity. Sometimes worship includes real or imitated sexual acts, and I think that this is how the term came to be associated with sex in general. A sexual fetish is an object or activity that creates sexual arousal. One can say that foot fetishists "worship" feet (although it all differs on a case by case basis and so on).
Sexual fetishism is a bit tricky. Some consider it a sexual deviance, but it's not quite so simple. Most people have some kind of sexual fetish, so it's actually normal. The difference between norm and deviance is in how far one takes it. For example, a person might fetishize animals and use animal costumes and accessories for sexual activities (i.e. roleplay). This would be regarded as a normal fetish. But if they were to have sex with an actual animal, that would be a deviance. Of course, these are very basic examples, there are some specific cases, like if a person wants to have only animal roleplay sex and forces their partner into it, then it's a deviance as well.
Now in case of transwomen, way I see it, the people accusing you of fetishizing imply that you're only turned on\ want to have sex with a fully transitioned transwoman (or almost fully, since dicks are involved), and not with one who's barely begun the transition or is halfway through the process (i.e. one that still looks like a man), or even have a normal relationship with them. And here it would depend on your actual preferences and how willing you are to discuss these things with the accusing person. The absurdity of this is that trans people themselves would more rather be fully transitioned, although it, again, depends on the individual person. We should also not rule out the fact that regardless of transition stage, a trans person still has needs, both physical and emotional, so even if they'd rather be fully transitioned to feel comfortable with themselves and those around them, they'd still appreciate someone to love and be loved by while they're still getting there. So, you know, all is relative.
As to whether or not one can fetishize a non-trans man or woman, it's actually very much possible. It's just that it's normally accepted for men to be attracted to women and vice-versa, so the lines are a bit blurred here. Likewise for gay people, but since they too have a history of being marginalized, nobody says anything to them in this regard. Again, the bottom line is the degree of fetishizing. If you are attracted to a woman and see her as a human being of the opposite sex that you're willing sleep with, then it's fine. If you see her as some kind of an idealized sex toy, then it's not fine.
The key word is 'objectification', I guess.
Still, keep in mind that the world is full of different people, some of whom happen to be pretentious assholes who like to project their own problems onto others to feel better about themselves. Some are hurt, some are stupid, some are dishonest with themselves. So if you're willing to have a normal discussion with someone who accuses you of something, but they keep accusing you regardless, then they either have personal issues, or are following some kind of an agenda. In either case, they're not worth bothering with.
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Hmm... last time I checked, most cis-hetero people would only want to have sex with a person of opposite gender whom they find physically attractive. The same is essentially true for most homosexual people, except that they find the persons of the same sex physically attractive (but wouldn't necessarily find any such person attractive). Does that mean that the absolute vast majority of people are “fetishizing” their potential sexual partner? It is pretty normal for a person who is only attracted to feminine body to only want to have sex with fully transitioned (in terms of secondary sexual characteristics) trans women, since such a person would not normally find another person who looks like a man a desirable sexual partner, regardless of the latter's gender self-identification.