You want a woman who is soft, feminine, sexually submissive?
Who said anything about soft, feminine, and sexually submissive? Wanting a normal romance with a futa - or a female for that matter - doesn't mean you automatically want a "soft, feminine and sexually submissive" partner. Sure, there's place for love and support, but that doesn't mean they're supposed to bend backwards at your every whim. Likewise, there's place for being more stern, confident, mean even, but again, it doesn't have to be abusive. I, for one, like women with character. It'd make my skin crawl to have a girlfriend or wife that is always all bubbly and "welcome home, honey! you want dinner? a foot massage? a blowjob? you've got it!
" ...ugh...
I mean, it'd be nice to have a partner with a "can do!" attitude, but it's one thing to "can do" and another to be cardboard. And I think that's what the other guys were saying. Have a romancable futa character who acts like a normal human being. Well, I've actually seen such characters in quite a few games, but they almost always have emotional baggage (zOmG, tEh PaIn Of BeInG tRaNs In A tRaNs-HaTiNg WoRlD!
). I get it, the pain is real, and it's thus realistic, but we're talking about fictional worlds where anyone is willing to jump the protagonist's bone at first glance, so why not have that fictional world's society actually be acceptive of trans\ futa people, but without turning them into such an obvious sexual fetish? One thing I like about LifePlay is that you can have futa\ trans characters but they act the same way as male and female characters until you get them in bed (or until some sexual event triggers).
Here is another problem. A lot of adult games, I've noticed, tend to confuse healthy confidence with hyper-sexuality and outright abusiveness. Many games that deal with domination tend to go overboard with it, turning into borderline psychopathy.
