Recommending Gay Protagonist Games List

[borednephi]

any games here have petplay content?

, Bound to College has one side character.

 

[askqer]

any games here have petplay content?

Debasing Grounds just got this content but bear in mind it's a game still early in developpement. IMO the game is awesome even now and I hope it keeps getting better. Btw it contains many fetishes. Hope it helps!

 

[LucioLupo]

1. and 2. are an incredibly problematic take. To properly address everything wrong with it you'd need to unravel way more than is space for here, but i'll try my best to point out what came to mind immediately for me.

Terms for sexuality are not very accurate because sexuality and the connected topics such as gender identity are all each a spectrum, not a checklist - the term gay is a catchall for all attraction to the same gender and cannot be used in the way shown here.

Sissies, femboys and traps are all male, both in body parts and in terms of self identification - if they identified as female, then none of the three would apply.
Attraction to them as a male thus means this is gay, no matter their interests in "traditionally female" topics or how they present outwards.

Denying this would lead to the conclusion that lesbians who are attracted to butch women are somehow not lesbian, rather "straight women with certain fetishes", because butch women often have interests in "traditionally male" topics and present more "male" than "female" - its in conflict with the very definition of the word AND the writings of most LGBT authors who have researched and written on the topic.

The men in ancient greek stories of pederasty, which are commonly used as THE example of gay people in antiquity in popular culture, also would not be gay if we applied the logic outlined in this comment as boys and young men do not have the features typically associated with "manliness" such as lots of bodyhair including beards, large muscles and overall larger bodies.

You can definitely be a gay man and only be interested in more feminine men, just like you can be a gay man and only be interested in hyper masculine men, thats simply the way the word is defined and you'll have to deal with femboys showing up under the gay term just as lesbians looking for femme content will have to deal with butch content showing up.

The statement that "[..]some gay men into that, but that' cuz they have those fetishes, not because they are gay." is thus simply incorrect.

Futa is a bit of a more difficult topic, however as they have male and female genitals, attraction to them means that you cannot be grouped under the term straight.

2. falls apart since 1. is already a completely incorrect point.

I think the truth stands in the middle. Greeks did not identify as gay people, and the married women. Straight people can still enjoy twinks only as sexual partners, because they are not attracted to them. Gay men, especially gay and bisexual tops, can still be attracted to the masculine features of femboys; even if some coupling patterns are more frequent than others.

 

[pilgrim2003]

The Greeks were misogynists, culturally speaking. The male form was the ultimate of beauty and intellect. You wonder why Sappho had it rough. I wouldn't get too far down that line of thinking.

Also what we consider gay and bisexual behavior was in ancient Greece much, MUCH, more common. However as was stated there were modes that we would consider pedophilia, rape and toxic masculinity. Consent was not a thing in Greek culture, there's a lot of rape in the Greek myths for a reason.

To reframe the original statement "obligate gay males, i.e. cismales that are only attracted to masculine cismales" are indeed rare. Most common type after heterosexuals are bisexuals. A lot bisexuals are forced to "choose a side", but that doesn't change their orientation. Labels are for cans, but to reject all feminine display is rare.

Sorry, but this is too much an oversimplification for an ancient nation and culture that lasted and developed for more than 900 years. Not talking about the details... Cheers

 

[nackedsnake]

1. and 2. are an incredibly problematic take. To properly address everything wrong with it you'd need to unravel way more than is space for here, but i'll try my best to point out what came to mind immediately for me.

Terms for sexuality are not very accurate because sexuality and the connected topics such as gender identity are all each a spectrum, not a checklist - the term gay is a catchall for all attraction to the same gender and cannot be used in the way shown here.

Sissies, femboys and traps are all male, both in body parts and in terms of self identification - if they identified as female, then none of the three would apply.
Attraction to them as a male thus means this is gay, no matter their interests in "traditionally female" topics or how they present outwards.

Denying this would lead to the conclusion that lesbians who are attracted to butch women are somehow not lesbian, rather "straight women with certain fetishes", because butch women often have interests in "traditionally male" topics and present more "male" than "female" - its in conflict with the very definition of the word AND the writings of most LGBT authors who have researched and written on the topic.

The men in ancient greek stories of pederasty, which are commonly used as THE example of gay people in antiquity in popular culture, also would not be gay if we applied the logic outlined in this comment as boys and young men do not have the features typically associated with "manliness" such as lots of bodyhair including beards, large muscles and overall larger bodies.

You can definitely be a gay man and only be interested in more feminine men, just like you can be a gay man and only be interested in hyper masculine men, thats simply the way the word is defined and you'll have to deal with femboys showing up under the gay term just as lesbians looking for femme content will have to deal with butch content showing up.

The statement that "[..]some gay men into that, but that' cuz they have those fetishes, not because they are gay." is thus simply incorrect.

Futa is a bit of a more difficult topic, however as they have male and female genitals, attraction to them means that you cannot be grouped under the term straight.

2. falls apart since 1. is already a completely incorrect point.

I'm not interested in your mental gymnastics, not how you want to define "gay", nor your gender politics.
Do you even realise we are talking about porn video games?

If I want to play Bara games, I will steer away from Sissy, femboy and trap; vise versa.
If I want to play vanilla MxF games, I will steer away from Sissy, femboy and trap.
If I want to play MxF games, but don't mind the bells and whistles, I might be fine with Sissy, femboy and trap.
If I want to play YAOI games, I might be fine with from Sissy, femboy and trap.
If I want to play games with Sissy, femboy and trap, I'll do that.
If I'm curious, then there it goes.

Now tell me, How your muddling the water, help anyone to identify the audiences, develop the game, find the game you want to play ???

Young Male / Twinks are still male with masculine features, just less "manliness". Feminine men in real life are still "men".
While Sissy, Femboy and Trap are all about their feminine feats, with packages like transformation / humiliation / deception / etc.

And You said my point 2 is a "problematic take", do you imply that Gay men is not in minority, and Most porn games are actually made for Gay?
You said it's a "spectrum" (which I agree), yet you say you are either "Straight" or "Gay"???

 

[GoldenLamp]

yea.. I think it's best to reitarate that most are just asking for better tags. so for example; make it so a completely staight game with one trap character won't show up if you are searching for mlm (I personally have been dissapointed too many times by situations like this).
Hell, the bad tag system is the whole reason this thread exists.

 

[KekKoo]

yea.. I think it's best to reitarate that most are just asking for better tags. so for example; make it so a completely staight game with one trap character won't show up if you are searching for mlm (I personally have been dissapointed too many times by situations like this).
Hell, the bad tag system is the whole reason this thread exists.

Not only all of this, but last I checked, they were finally working on a new tag system, but I read about that.. how many months ago exactly? I hope it's been being worked on in all this time instead of just starting/laying out the groundwork, and then leaving it to collect dust..

 

[GoldenLamp]

Not only all of this, but last I checked, they were finally working on a new tag system, but I read about that.. how many months ago exactly? I hope it's been being worked on in all this time instead of just starting/laying out the groundwork, and then leaving it to collect dust..

please, don't get my hopes up. also do you remember where you read that?

 

[KekKoo]

please, don't get my hopes up. also do you remember where you read that?

Easy find, in hindsight!

 

[GoldenLamp]

Easy find, in hindsight!

god damn it, that looks great. But it's been almost a year D:

 

[Rafster]

god damn it, that looks great. But it's been almost a year D:

We don't even know in which year they'll update the site.

So yeah, this thread is an useful guide. I still do the old manual way, list for gay tag, and see the banner/description/first page of comments.

• If the game banner show boobs, the less gay it will be. The bigger the boobs, the less gay content you'll find. That's a first sign.
• Then the description, usually mention if it's a gay focused game. If it doesn't, expect 1 or 2 casual encounters with men. There are some bisexual games, but those are rare, at least for men.
• And third, look at the comments if the game still confuse you.
• And usually the screenshots gives an approximate idea, so that too.

 

[CboyC95]

What's wrong with crossdressers and femboys?

 

[AYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY]

I'm not interested in your mental gymnastics, not how you want to define "gay", nor your gender politics.
Do you even realise we are talking about porn video games?

If I want to play Bara games, I will steer away from Sissy, femboy and trap; vise versa.
If I want to play vanilla MxF games, I will steer away from Sissy, femboy and trap.
If I want to play MxF games, but don't mind the bells and whistles, I might be fine with Sissy, femboy and trap.
If I want to play YAOI games, I might be fine with from Sissy, femboy and trap.
If I want to play games with Sissy, femboy and trap, I'll do that.
If I'm curious, then there it goes.

Now tell me, How your muddling the water, help anyone to identify the audiences, develop the game, find the game you want to play ???

Young Male / Twinks are still male with masculine features, just less "manliness". Feminine men in real life are still "men".
While Sissy, Femboy and Trap are all about their feminine feats, with packages like transformation / humiliation / deception / etc.

And You said my point 2 is a "problematic take", do you imply that Gay men is not in minority, and Most porn games are actually made for Gay?
You said it's a "spectrum" (which I agree), yet you say you are either "Straight" or "Gay"???

Everyone is fine with that block of ifs. I don't care what you like, thats entirely up to you.

I am also not arguing against more tags. Your post wasn't asking for more tags, so why are you deflecting to that now?. It was saying something along the lines of "gay men into traps/sissies/femboys aren't actually gay, they're straight with certain fetishes". Thats what i have a problem with, because its wrong on all accords.

If all you want is more, clearer tags then i have no issues with that.

However, you once again reiterate this clearly wrong take. Sissies, femboys and traps all exist in real life. If you're into them as a man, then that is gay and in a piece of media depicting romantic or sexual relationships with them as a male protag deserves the gay tag. Again, thats just because of how the word gay is defined.

Just because you enjoy more feminine features on your partners of the same sexuality as you doesn't mean you're somehow less or not at all gay, as you are saying. Thats the core of my criticism.

Sexuality just like gender is a spectrum, with gay and straight being generally of very little use.
I used them because you brought them up to make it easier to you to understand what i am saying, though it seems i need to clarify what i mean when i use them:
Straight would be completely uninterested in people of the same gender
Gay would be anyone interested in people of the same gender

Whether or not gay people irl are really a minority is something that depends on definition. If we talk about openly only interested in the same gender, then you'd be right.
However, if we include openly bi/pan people and so on as well as closeted ones, then i think the 100% purely straights are actually the minority.
Thats speculation though and the conversation behind it is too complex to be had here.

What i was really talking about was the latter part of 2) "Ofc the number of above games will be way more than games made for gay man.", since trap/sissy/femboy games ARE made for gay men, among the other audiences, contrary to what you're saying.

 

[123456789iaiao]

What's wrong with crossdressers and femboys?

Nothing wrong with either, it's clear that they are your favourites, and this is your list after all, but maybe it could be reworked with a division between the games that are mostly hetero, the mostly futa/femboys, and the more masculine/bara; so everyone finds what they want more easily, it would be far more useful than between 3D and 2D games, in my opinion.

 

[Kuzesama]

Nothing wrong with either, it's clear that they are your favourites, and this is your list after all, but maybe it could be reworked with a division between the games that are mostly hetero, the mostly futa/femboys, and the more masculine/bara; so everyone finds what they want more easily, it would be far more useful than between 3D and 2D games, in my opinion.

TS has more specific thread for that, there are the bara and femboys only thread, this thread is more the general, so for those who only looking for bara or femboys can go to those thread instead and for those who are not into bara or femboys or those who are into both can keep looking in here
but I am a bit agree we need more thread for fury so they can be separated

 

[GoldenLamp]

but I am a bit agree we need more thread for fury so they can be separated

Yea, whilst I have nothing against furries I agree that it should be separated. It's just too annoying needing to sift through them. (again not here to kink shame, but there are a ton of em and it can get frustrating if you aren't into that).

 

[cantpickaname]

Yea, whilst I have nothing against furries I agree that it should be separated. It's just too annoying needing to sift through them. (again not here to kink shame, but there are a ton of em and it can get frustrating if you aren't into that).

Dude same. I wish I could redirect all the energy that goes into making furry content into the stuff I like. My dick would fall off. I'd be spoiled for choice.

 

[Heno zaku]

can the people on this thread focus on the games instead of debating sexuality, please

 

[GoldenLamp]

can the people on this thread focus on the games instead of debating sexuality, please

nope, this thread has been claimed by the gay debate club. do not resist.

 

[Geigi]

I mainly play yaoi games, but i havent seen sissy, trap and femboy type of guys in them, nor in bara. Anyway, Speakeasy have a threesome with bi men, just the sequel is in the works that will be only a bl game, so take a note on that.