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Thank you so much for your game, you have created my favourite ever femdom character in games and movies (Maeve!)
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I personally think the healthiest outcome is when neither individual in the relationship is wholly dominant, but it alternates - I think if you let a woman control your entire life, the novelty would wear off pretty quickly (not being sexist, would be same problem if roles are reversed - you need the autonomy to make your own decisions sometimes for a healthy sense of self), and she might want you to take care of her every once in a while too and be a bit more dominant in the relationship, so I think that balance is important, but I do get where you're coming from too mate.Don't despair friend, I think trying to accept it is the best way to go. It is true there are many women out there who just want the opposite of femdom, but I have recently thought about and found out that many women would be ok and happy leading a relationship in every way if given the chance.
Think about it for a second, they have been indoctrinated since childwood to be subservient to male figures. Some of them when given the chance, will happily try and live a more femdom lifestyle. It is just that it probably hasn't even occured to them that a man they could date would want such a thing! It is probably all new to them, give them the chance, maybe when you meet someone you find attractive ask them for their type, and when they ask yours just say that your type is dominant women!
I am really hopeful things change, I can tell from discussing it with you guys in this thread that many of you (me included) feel inadequate simply because our current society pushes for maledom. But hey, I'm sure there's a cutie out there for everyone who is happy challenging society's decadent ways
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the majority of submissive guys out there are only submissive in bed. it's the same with women, they can have the most contrarian fiery personalities, but still be completely obedient in bed.
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Exactly, people shouldn't mix daily life and sexual life. Someone who wants to be a slave in bed doesn't necessarily wants to be a slave in his life ! ( Fortunately )
Very interesting and I think you're definitely right about the repression, forgot about that aspect of it. You could also be right about matriarchal societies in the past, as I don't know too much about the customs of ancient societies though from what I've seen the ancient pantheons were definitely more balanced between male and female deities than some of the more modern religions. I vaguely remember something about three goddesses in some middle eastern civilisation being either merged into one and made lesser deities or turned into demons in the mythos etc, but again my knowledge on this is pretty shaky. The pantheon featured in the Epic of Gilgamesh is mostly my guess as to what old religions used to look like (not completely masculine or feminine, but a mix between them)I am sure it has always existed, as we can see from old paintings (japanese for example) with a lot of facesitting etc. Probably, much like the LGBTQ+ it was just being repressed and condemned.
Many historians believe that at the dawn of humanity, when we had our first villages and practiced only agriculture societies were matriarchal. Reason for that is all the gods from those times were women and all the statues were female too. When humanity discovered animal husbandry things changed, and we slowly replaced our goddesses for gods.
This brings me joy and hope, thinking nature has nothing to judge us for! And that what once was could be again
Can I just say thank you to all of you for talking to me about this, it was nice
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That makes sense for someone who's switch. Some people prefer to be in full control for whatever reason, and some people prefer to be fully submissive for whatever reason. As long as everyone is happy with their roles than that is fine. I would argue that novelty works a bit different, in a switch relationship switching things up can be the novelty, in a dom sub it could be trying new things, new toys, I mean it doesn't have to be sexual either.
I guess that if we feel happy being fully submissive then we just have to find someone who is happy being fully dominant. You can still look after your dommy in times of need, doesn't mean you take away the control from them
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We will never know for sure, but (all?) the ancient goddesses related to agriculture and fertility were women, they got replaced or outshined by a surge of male gods such as the greek ones. My source is this youtuber that talks about ancient and pre-historic stories/mythology called
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around 15:00Indeed, thanks for the discussion! It helped me feel better knowing I am not alone struggling with this
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Its not really despair thankfully im also into vanilla stuff im not interested in persuing prostitution so im not asking a agf in the future to do some cringey cosplay or some cringy lines ...have a woman speak to me like darkholme from the gachinuchiverse FUCKING SLAVEV it would be funnier then hoterDon't despair friend, I think trying to accept it is the best way to go. It is true there are many women out there who just want the opposite of femdom, but I have recently thought about and found out that many women would be ok and happy leading a relationship in every way if given the chance.
Think about it for a second, they have been indoctrinated since childwood to be subservient to male figures. Some of them when given the chance, will happily try and live a more femdom lifestyle. It is just that it probably hasn't even occured to them that a man they could date would want such a thing! It is probably all new to them, give them the chance, maybe when you meet someone you find attractive ask them for their type, and when they ask yours just say that your type is dominant women!
I am really hopeful things change, I can tell from discussing it with you guys in this thread that many of you (me included) feel inadequate simply because our current society pushes for maledom. But hey, I'm sure there's a cutie out there for everyone who is happy challenging society's decadent ways
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Last Christmas, i gave you my heart
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Yeah, like, Couldn't you wait at least after New Year? Tomorrow seems a pretty day to be honest.
did you really expect dev to make up to her promises, you're new here aren't you
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They have probably just been pretty busy over Christmas.
This is true of most devs but Lina is pretty good (Not perfect, but good) about updates.
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guess thats what it is, havent come to this thread for awhile just needed an update, thanks!
This is true of most devs but Lina is pretty good (Not perfect, but good) about updates.
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Yaso where's update?
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Yaso where's update?
I find it funny that the dev promised certainly the release in November and since then we basically haven't heard from them.
Obviously shit happens and delays suck and then holiday season and everything, so no hard feelings. Still, you can basically study these femdom game creators interaction with the fanbases as a use case of how not to handle community relations. (Obviously this dev is still light years behind ToT creators on how not to handle their comms)
Obviously shit happens and delays suck and then holiday season and everything, so no hard feelings. Still, you can basically study these femdom game creators interaction with the fanbases as a use case of how not to handle community relations. (Obviously this dev is still light years behind ToT creators on how not to handle their comms)
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And this is why I will never support devs on patreon unless they've proven to be reliable for more than a year. Everytime I've supported a promising dev, it's been a shit show