I'm not hotheaded at all, and while I'm not a creator on the creative side, I am a developer, and I understand this isn't a job — it's a hobby. But that's the problem. The moment you create a Patreon and a person decides to support you, you have a responsibility toward that person as a developer. It's pretty shameless to do what this guy is doing.
In my opinion, the product is mediocre, unfinished, and shows no sign of ever being finished — with yearly updates that are also very underwhelming. Who knows how much money he's raking in? Of course people pay voluntarily, but I understand the feeling of being scammed when you give just barely enough — the bare minimum — to keep people hopeful about the project and willing to keep paying, while deep down you know you don’t care about the project and are never going to finish it.
You even said yourself it’s not on Steam. Well, even if it’s ridiculous to report anything here, at least I’m trying. Tell me another website where people can be made aware of what they’re actually getting into.
All these games on Steam get heavily criticized for stuff like this. And on Steam, you pay once and get free updates from there. It’s not the same as having people anxiously waiting on Patreon, getting basically nothing in return. Sure, there’s a lot of pirated stuff on F95, but I have supported devs through this site — devs who do have a real project, with a business vision and actual intent to finish.
Then, of course, there’s the classic “family issues” or “personal problems” card, which you can use to pause your project in front of your backers without anyone being allowed to question it. But that’s another issue.
Even if people laugh at you for speaking out — don’t stop trying to make the world better, and don’t let others take advantage of people.