- Apr 10, 2021
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It's ok dont worry for grammar mistakes, english is not my first language.U hit it almost in the center, cause it is actually the new reality we live in, we all try for perfection in life mostly on the outside, few of us try it on the inside too, but as the result sometimes reality kicks in and there are many (too many for my taste) cases when a good looking, fairly buit, intelligent guy see a fine woman but she is with / chooses rather fat, ugly, bald, short, hairy, etc. almost everytime rich man. Then the above average man asks himself why that ugly bastard and not me?! There is no answer to that question. Women do not know what they want. Ever. When they evolve and realise that it is almost always too late cause it happens in the high age only. Moreover when one (man) finds oneself asking such question (why him?) - that is the right moment when it is point of no return and it goes all wrong. ALL THAT IS envy/jelousy speaking directly into our underdeveloped low selfesteem reality formed subconsciousness. Then it starts to play with our mind and more and more cases as such cames into attention and it results in weird stance when that man see only such exact or similar cases and nothing else and it annoys him. It is a psychology thing I am not an expert, but somewhere on the line man changes internally, breaks and starts to like such shit. Brain is a miracle - it protects itself, it rather chooses (instead of us) to cope with something we hate then shut down and break.Such situation is not normal/right, but it is as it is, and if someone wants to live in reality and even change something to his/hers liking, good luck - nope, it works backwards and reality changes you, even if you cannot comprehend it with a constious mind.
To simply put it, the games (and all products in life) are trying to cope with reality and demand, if the reality is sick (psychologically as many ppl nowadays), then there will always be stuff to endorse such behavior (and earn money in the process). There have always been a huge difference between what is normal and what is usual. The difference is often forgotten - that is why there is no middle ground, only extremes. The best you can do, is avoid stuff you don't like, if you force yourself to it - there is a risk that somewhere on the line your brain starts to like it, like everything with repetition (think of music for instance, the more often you hear some song - not intentionally, only as background somewhere - the more you like it).
Sorry for grammar mistakes.
I disagree with this being "the new reality" statement, simply because I doubt in this site we have people from one country, I am from Europe, also because the internet world is different from the real world. And tbh internet has ruined this generation creating lots of insecurities, especially men have lots of insecurities and unfortunately porn (real porn I would say not some 3d cartoons with ridiculous large penises) has done this damage. I agree with the people wanting to always be perfect tho, we always wanted to be perfect.
I am a woman actually and tbh I prefer handsome young guys, I don't care if he is rich (maybe because I am working myself), or whatever, I personally look at his personality, I am close to late 30s and my husband and I are actually very happy, we very honest with each other on what we like and trust each other, trust is very rare nowdays (always was actually).
Now regarding the obvious you said about the rich ugly men, I hate to say it but it has to do with men and "patriarchy" still in our society, as a result, the young guys get insecurities, a young man for many years on our societies has to provide or else he is a "loser" he is a "nothing", a woman wouldnt being received as one. That's a lot of weight for men especially young boys, its easier for women for sure, of course now it changes, although its still there. I mean we are animals, and on humans, males is the dominant gender and was for many years, there is your answer, just like with animals the males fight with each other for who is dominant, that's why we see ugly men being with hot women, if females were the dominant gender, we would see the opposite, ugly rich women being with hot men. Of course the western world has changed, and thats why the old ugly rich woman being with young guys on the western world is a thing, although rare (and maybe some asian countries, very few of course). Because now we changing to men and women having some form of equality, the thing we call civilization changes, and demand changes too without a doubt. This is why I disagree with the statement of "the new reality", cause it was always like that, ever since civilization was like that, men were dominanting against other men, but also I disagreed because the internet and the real world are different actually.
Sorry for this long comment but I am sure my comment like you said hit some interest for convo just like yours did.
In this site, which I understand is not woman friendly on what we want and like, I find like few good games that were expected to be on my tastes to be honest.