Well, generalizations are always hard, specially when you try to make them more specific. While I'm sure there are tons of women like the ones you describe, I'm well aware of a lot of women that enjoy most of those things. I've known girls who get pleasure from anal and really like it, girls who love sucking cock and cum, and definitely there are girl who are size queens, even studies that say they are more aroused by seeing a big cock even when it's not erect (can't remember where I saw that). They also hate "spaguetti dicks" as they call them, heard my female friends talking about experiences they had with those and they laughed at how horrible it was, so... And I've met girls who can only cum if you stick your cock in them, they don't get off with just tongue or fingers, but others are the opposite so... Women are diverse and weird, man.