Hmm.. I get that. But I see it differently.
Story Time:
Back in high school, I had a male best friend, not to be confused with my female best friend who I'm with now. Notice how I said
had, I'll get to that in a moment. He had been pining away for this girl since we were in the 6th grade. I told him to stop pining and do something. Apparently he did over our 11th grade summer vacation. I came back and seen this and actually noticed how hot she was and as usual, I let my silver tongue work it's charm. I never had issues with girls and never understood how others had such a problem.
Anyway, one thing led to another and things happened between her and I. He of course found out, he was very upset and asked me why. I only smiled and said something stupid which I don't remember now, which made him upset and he stormed off. We talked about a month later. I asked of he was still pissed off and laughed. He told me to fuck off and that was that.
Do I feel bad about it now? Kind of, but not really. Am I an asshole for doing it, a huge one. So, fellas, long story short: Learn from my asshole ways and don't be like me.