I agree. Some VN's are mostly focused around the sex, but i'm not a fan of those.
I definitely prefer the ones that focus on story over lewd content, like Grandma's House.
Even though sex are usually expected (this is f95 after all), it can really be
anti-climatic if it feels rushed/forced. The journey is more important than the destination and all that
That being said, i AM really looking forward to a slice of Cat. And Shizuka. And Liz. And most of the others
They're looking very edible and i'm getting peckish!