Thomas is not a good guy. No matter how he treats women, in general, he's absolutely (not meant as hyperbole, I cannot think of a single example) horrible to other men. Even the men on his side, like frenchy. And that poor groom, who was also forced into an arranged marriage, has now had his entire life derailed with his bride carrying another man's baby.
I love fiction and have no limits when shit isnt real, but Thomas's shit behavior towards one woman doesnt even come close to what he does to the other men around him.
I ultimately agree with youre overall sentiment, just wanted to remember the boys.
But you know me... I try to laugh about it and cover it all up with lies. I try to laugh about it, hiding the tears in my eyes... cuz Boys dont cry.