Re-read your post... (I think there's a word missing)
For each one that speaks up, there's a bunch more that remain silent, lurking. I don't reply to the ones that speak up, I reply to the lurkers.
Another thing, we don't really care about the "disagreers" (as you called them), I care about those that Play the game. I care that they know where they are, what the game is about, what they can expect, and, also, what they shouldn't expect.
This game is NOT for everyone. I try to make the misguided ones find their way, whether it's in the game, or, how to get out. Because, let's face it, there's a lot of good games out there, they shouldn't be wasting time with one that really isn't for them, the sooner they see it, the better.
Peace