I'll be honest with you.To give a better example, I'll tell you about a scene that's already written. There's a chance that the MC will arrive at a certain location, where he will hide and have the option to observe or not the scene that's happening in front of him. Because the player doesn't know what to expect, seeing a scene that might not please them can be avoided, but since it doesn't happen to him and is part of the plot, the scene will still exist.
Your VN looks great but the fact that you are forcing certain fetishes in what is supposed to be a harem game has turned a lot of us away from it.
I've been watching since the beginning to see if that mattered to you. You have made it clear that you don't intend to make some of the undesirable fetishes optional (skippable means they still happen and that still makes the Li's involved unlikable and therefore unwanted).
I was hoping you would decide to make those fetishes optional, as in the player decides whether they happen or not or at least make all the LI's with undesirable content optional so that we could get rid of them. You have apparently written your plot into a corner where you can't do that.
I wish you the best and I hope your next VN takes this in to consideration and just maybe the harem community will give it a look.