I define MILF age as being relative to the main character. Mostly because when ever I am playing any game I tend to identify with the main character.
MILF is a thing, irregardless of the age of the MC, and by definition they have to be attractive.
I can confidently say that I have not ever felt that way. I always prefer to be the one with superior skills in all things in life.
I am too, but you did not always have those skills, and had to learn them at some point. The best way to get them, is to study under a master. You not going to learn shit from someone who knows nothing like John Snow, and is afraid to even react to anything. It is much easier to learn from someone who knows what they like, and is not afraid to tell you when it does (or does not). Some inexperienced chick, who is willing to fake an orgasm because they don't know any better, isn't going to help you improve.
Games or no, I just conceptually don't understand the entire idea. I mean, the only thing an older woman has that a younger one does not (within reason and biology, of course, don't get weird on me) is wrinkles.
You are exaggerating for effect, and I respect that, but that is not a MILF, it's a 'GILF', MILF's don't have wrinkles (though if they get too realistic, they might have some stretch marks, but this is fantasy so that isn't common). A women in her 30's-40's is just not that old. I am almost 50, so I am in a pretty good place to judge, wrinkles are are still a long ways off.
Again, it is about experience, fucking someone who doesn't know what they are doing can get old. You will learn a lot faster, and have more fun with someone who knows what they are doing, no matter the age.
I am not an agist, so I don't care how old someone is as long as they still look good. If they are old and wrinkled or too young and underdeveloped, then it is a huge turn off ...I am not into extremes. (Here's hoping that having a kid will help Ashley develop some ...if she is even able to have one, at her size it is actually unlikely that she could carry one to term, another thing I know all too well...)
I totally agree that the age of the MC matters, but for me, that is more when it comes how
young the girl is, not old. Few things are worst to me than an old MC with a young girl (especially if it is their daughter). I am a centrist, but if I
had to pick one, I would prefer to error on the side of too old, as I would prefer a few wrinkles than someone who looks like they didn't finish puberty.
The only good thing about kids is making them.