Also I mean, I get the sentiment about feeling like you're being cucked with these characters, I felt like that was the case a bit as well. But to be fair, they did make it so you can be in either person's POV. I don't think there's ever been a porn game that didn't have you see the sex from a third-person view, so I think it's a moot argument. Especially when you're there to see sex in 3D, so why not have an option to see it from the outside like you were watching porn. But the customization (like such implemented in Shades of Elysium or perhaps Rack 2) would surely make it more like you're just viewing yourself doing it with someone obviously. For now they're working with the models they have.
I will admit that when I heard about there being two, I got a little excited as well thinking you could play with two at once, or maybe force them to bang like it was Koboldkare or something lol