Thank you.

I'm pretty bad with names, most of the time, especially if I don't hear them being spoken.
Thought I had seen the Wilsons mentioned recently, but I couldn't quite place the Shaws.
Since the only other couple of significance that I could think of was Brody's boss and wife I took a guess.
Every other forum I've been on the post will be deleted for everyone but the user, which is good so you can identify the reportedly bad behaviour. I really did think that was a universal standard until F95.
Most forums I've been on they don't delete the posts initially. When a post is reported, it's hidden, flagged, and the user is notified.
Then they're given an option to willingly delete it, submit an appeal why it should be allowed, or it is deemed a violation and removed.
In any case, the user is shown which post is being flagged so they can learn what might not be acceptable.