I understand your thoughts on that.
One thing I wanted to avoid was 5+ different relationships all moving at the same speed at the same time.
For example Parker, Chloe and Hanna's relationships moving slowly towards the end goal starting from scratch. I wanted there to be some outlier relationships that although maybe a bit unrealistic, they don't follow the same slow buildup pattern. Beyond the stripper, Dale and Naomi would be examples of "possible" relationships that might burn faster and hotter.
On top of that, my goal was to make a game that could work for the player who likes to play the slut, the lesbian, straight only, etc. Just because the MC can do something, doesn't mean you have too. The negative of that is obvious content is always a bit split per update (unless you are a slutty gal).
Lastly, all the girls at the bachelorette party I think gave "some" inclination they would be down to clown with another man, even if married. Is there a ton of backstory to that, no. But, being in the MC's POV sometimes makes it harder to get all that.