It's like I said, if you don't associate yourself with the character and see it as you're just controlling the story narrative then, while it 'IS' NTR, you're not the literal target, the character you're roleplaying as is.
It's similiar to how roleplay works in D&D, you are not your character. (I'm a forever DM currently on break) It certainly helps when you end up in a situation where you're ultimately fucked, and just go 'Oh well, let's try again'
That being said it is entirely understandable to get SO immersed into something that you forget you're playing a game. So I can see why some people wouldn't like NTR in that sense.
It's similiar to how roleplay works in D&D, you are not your character. (I'm a forever DM currently on break) It certainly helps when you end up in a situation where you're ultimately fucked, and just go 'Oh well, let's try again'
That being said it is entirely understandable to get SO immersed into something that you forget you're playing a game. So I can see why some people wouldn't like NTR in that sense.