You make some fairly good points, specifically about the relationship of Patrons and h-game developer. You provide some insightful comments on project management, estimates, and quality of the work.
Yet I can't help but feel uncomfortable for the seemingly obsessive defense / activity on this thread. You're not paid to comment on this thread, so clearly you feel a strong desire due to person interest in the success of the project. Watching you write post after post with crazy amount of emojis and 10 different arguments in a single post makes me think you're building an unhealthy mental health state from posting and reading on this thread.
Maybe it's time to take it easy.
Tangentially, as a team lead you should know you don't get people to listen to you by waving your credentials around. You do it with empathy, with patience, and with a level of kindness. Sure your team members might listen to you because they have to, but they do not respect leaders without those qualities. Or at least pretend you have those qualities!
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As for this game, I came back after months. Sadden to see little meaningful updates and tons of renderings that probably won't even make it into the game. It seems this is typical for the game's release cycle and the dev isn't ghosting. I guess it is what it is.
I think this game is definitely above average though. Has great potential once it finally gets to the end game sex / plot scenes
Hi cleanfeel,
Finally a fair reply...
Thank you, I appreciate it.
You're not paid to comment on this thread, so clearly you feel a strong desire due to person interest in the success of the project.
That is 100% true. My strong "desire" that you mentioned comes from the fact that I am supporting the game at the highest level for months and the dedication I see in the dev.
Watching you write post after post with crazy amount of emojis and 10 different arguments in a single post makes me think you're building an unhealthy mental health state from posting and reading on this thread.
Thank you for your concern, despite what it seems, I am well...
I only am harsh when I think the messages I react to deserve it...
if someone speaks to me like you did here, I have no reason to be harsh...
Moreover, I never argue about personal tastes: I deeply respect this...
I reacted to people trying to pass off their unmet personal tastes as objective flaws (what they are not : objective flaws are not a matter of taste, they exist for everyone) or saying untrue things, which is unfair and can mislead other people.
My goal is just to bring here a fair nuance because, as youd said, I feel a strong desire to the success of this project... And that will remain as long as the dev is dedicated to it.
Trust me,
I replied kindly first (all is here but far above this thread) and explained my pov :
I mostly got no answer and the bashing continued
from the same people... Therefore, I changed my tone towards them because I doubted (and I still am) honesty of most posts from them...
It is easy not to go through that: discuss with me when my reaction does not match what is...
When a misunderstanding arises from what I say, even if my interlocutor reacts harshly, I try to clarify my thinking and often that settles the conflict.
Tangentially, as a team lead you should know you don't get people to listen to you by waving your credentials around. You do it with empathy, with patience, and with a level of kindness. Sure your team members might listen to you because they have to, but they do not respect leaders without those qualities. Or at least pretend you have those qualities!
I do not want to flood about that (off topic) : the first quality a leader must have, imho,
is to be fair (never mean (obviously), and not too soft)... That is what I try the most here :
being fair.
Here, I am not at work and I lead no one here : I am just very demanding about being fair...
I cannot help but react when I read here ridiculously wrong things leading me to think their writers are dishonest...
I post only rarely, I mostly react... And what I say is carefully thought : I will never react harshly to someone trying to explain his point of view to me especially if we do
not agree.
Best regards.