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i dont think she was using him to raise a kid idk where you got that from. he was with her knowing the kid was not his, it was his choice. they break up and then he takes him in years later.. for all of that he is being a good guy but obviously the rest makes you change your opinion on him.I feel like Emily doesn't have the right to be mad at Andres, sure he wasn't exactly a smooth boyfriend, but he's basically helping his girlfriend who was pregnant with someone else kid while she herself was still hang up on her last boyfriend.
I mean yeah he starts off using Emily to make Santiago jelly, but Emily is using Andres to literally raise a kid(feels like one of this is more extreme than the other).
Also, Andres suspicion on Emily cheating with Santiago isn't exactly coming from nowhere, the first time they dated Emily literally break up with Andres bc Santiago pressure and when Emily date Andres, Santiago can still be handsy like it's nobody business.
I feel like the one that get out more in this exchange was Emily rather than Andres.
if you are in a relationship with no trust there is no point of it, if he thought she was cheating and would do that shit then just break up. she wasnt cheating on him she just met him.. a woman meeting the dad of her son to talk about it wouldnt make me think ahh she is a cheat..
the mum makes a few mistakes in this sure but none of it comes from a bad place, theres a difference when people do stuff maliciously.
if you was with someone and you found out that it started because of something petty with making someone jealous or whatever it would 100% make you feel a certain way, so sure i think she is allowed to be angry, it doesnt mean she will carry that anger with her forever but for that moment of course she should show some sort of emotion, its normal..