I don't consider Stoper a "patrons milker", that's an adjective I would rather use for others devs.
I agree with
Maviarab on the "no patreon no complain" philosophy but on the other hand I agree more with
gingersweetgirl.
Thanks to this forum we are able to discover new games and developers, it's a good way to advertising and let people know you and your work.
I'm a patreon of a couple of some devs that lately let me down for a lot of reasons: content, delays, excuses, long absences and some rude answers to polite questions from other patrons. I'm looking for a new dev and Stoper might be at the top of the list, but then there are these huge delays (release an update 1/2 week after is not a big problem for me), questionable content: cheating /corruption/ntr/swinging tags and then Jess ia having sex just with her husband or having fun with the neighbour's wife, some times in his posts is like he doesn't have a lot of motivation, ...
If this is just a hobby is fine, but then you should write a nice post where you explain your philosophy like the dev of Tentacular: "Hey kid, I'm a zoo clown. Now buy a giraffe or go to hell". At least people will know how to behave.