Like, i can understand that. But it feels so underwhelming in this particular genre of the games. Cheating is huge part of games like this, and huge part of excitement. Want it or not. You can always play other way, but i can't imagine myself going that route unless, like dev said, he can make it "just as exciting as cheating". Then i will gladly do so since i'm completionist. Right now though, it screams "boring".
That's netorase (willing sharing) you're talking about. Other variations of ntr, you wouldn't like as much.