Yeah, it is DoL. I attempted to indulge myself in Lilith's Throne, but cannot make heads or tails of that game. Too much text for my rapidly ageing eyes.Is that Degrees of Lewdity, by any chance? Or Lilith's Throne? Personally, I like games that give gender norms the middle finger that they deserve. I can enjoy them and also enjoy games that capitalize on those norms with themes like maledom, femdom etc. Variety's a great thing.
As regards the sensitive subject of gender norms, paradoxically one needs to have concepts thereof clearly defined if they wish to transgress them. I dare say that oftentimes gender norms (or should I say 'stereotypes') become a fetish in the transformation genre. No one wears impossibly pink high heels and bimbo makeup the way 'Secretary' does. And that's one of my gripes with all-encompassing lewd games that only brush a specific erotic subject, without exploring it properly, which is with passion and understanding. The same thing with S&M themes in KP: it is not really a good BDSM game that knows what power exchange or even pure painsluttery is. Just some slaps, cock busting and name-calling to spice up the general atmosphere of corruptive management. Which is just fine, but could be further refined, given the fact that Karryn's S&M leanings have their separate stats, broken down into two somewhat contradictory levels.