The bonuses you get from high reputation in those two jobs specifically makes it to where you want to do them at least occasionally, imo. Being able to gradually reduce control deductions plus increase order for the former and gain money while stopping riots for the latter tends to give you way more wiggle room. Less fights also means your passives spike much less often. Poledancing is like the freest boost to late-game progression as long as you specifically aren't taking off more than the first piece or any at all.
If you optimize on edict choice, you won't need their bonuses. Having beaten the game on prisoner mode using slut build, there's surprisingly a lot of edicts you can safely skip out on without running out of Order. A lot of my runs finish without reception, gym, stripclub.
On my slut runs, i only use bar to learn my first sex skill and only occassionally do it to maintain some income early game. Toilet sidejob is for grinding sex level and orgasm (which related passives eventually reduce Energy loss from orgasm). This is without resorting to defeat spam and/or getting stripped naked by prisoners (triggers exhibitionist passive) to learn sex skills.
The main reason to avoid these two jobs is because of the sight / talk action by the prisoners which counts toward triggering passives that lowers their resist.
Bar job is also kinda bad but on slut run, you are racing to get drunk asap to finish the session.
That said though, if you focus on endurance & energy growth early, you can still tanked through all the pleasure damage without worrying too much about being soft locked by orgasm loop and just play the game as normal.
