When do you not have a reason to? I constantly see reason to talk about my favorite fetishes.
You think I restrict the types of comments I leave on this site just to this site?
There's a time and a place for fetishes. And it is all the time and everywhere.
I love blabbing about my fetishes to random people. I have no shame or restraint. XD
Then again, I also don't have any real life friends. Or many friends in general. But I gotta share the new Shindol work of art with someone. Even if it's with random strangers. The world needs to know.
In here it makes sense, of course. We can all see it only takes me a vague excuse to start pretending I have things to say about it. We're on a porn website, so porn is usually where the conversation goes to. It works the same for the internet as a whole, actually.
It would also makes sense to talk about it with your boy/girlfriend, or maybe your closest friend. But even though I have quite the curiosity about sex, I don't really need to know how everyone I know is sexing one another. And that is kind of the trend that's rising, in a weird way, with the PC culture and the acceptance of those many genders and all the rest. And, in case someone a mite jumpy is reading this, it's extremely easy to associate me with the LGBT community and many others "minorities".
It's good that you're open about it and confident and so on, but just because you can talk about it doesn't mean you have to. When you're talking to someone, you have to take into account that you're not talking to an exact replica of yourself but an actual person with their own personnality, views on things, and all the things that makes a person what they are. Maybe you're interested in what others are attracted to, but that's not the case for everyone. Not even to mention that not everyone will accept everything you say by being like "hey, that's cool, we all have our own fantasies, no one can rationalize that kind of shit, no one has a choice, no one can judge". Most likely they will say something like "VADE RETRO, may God judge your unholy choice".
I don't mind it. Online, real life, it's all the same to me. There's no such thing as too much information in my opinion. I'm fine with people telling me their personal shit. I mean, obviously, if it makes sense in the situation. I don't just randomly walk up to people and tell them ''I like rape porn.'' I mean, I wouldn't mind if anyone did that to me. But it would still feel way too random.
I think the biggest difference is that you can filter everything on the internet, something the movies about cyberbullying always forget. Many a time I was like "whoops, nope, not my fetish, I'm so out of here", and I'm out of here in a flash. Real life situations are not that easy to deal with, nowhere close. It's riddled with codes and behaviours you're meant to adopt, which is something that didn't carry over to the internet.
But I agree with everything you say afterwards, of course. If it's the subject at hand then that's fine. It's logical, really.
As for myself, I always think it's better people know my ''darker'' side as soon as possible, rather than it accidentally slip out later. 'Cause it will slip out. I have trouble keeping my mouth shut when it comes to my likes and dislikes. One minute we'll be playing a video game and the next I'll comment about how I can't wait to see Rule 34 of *insert character here* getting violated by *insert character and/or creature here*. So I might as well just be honest. Guess that's why I don't have many friends. I scare them all away with such subjects.
Yeah, because not everyone follow the same philosophy. For instance, I have self-inflicted scars all over my right arm, which doesn't bother me in any way, but it did bother one of my boyfriend (long ago) who basically had a stroke when he saw them. I usually wear long sleeves and I never mentionned it because I really don't mind them enough to be thinking about mentionning them (it's true I assure you is not bullshit). But when he was faced with the "dark side", I could see how well he could deal with it. Which was terribly.
Again, it depends on how good a friend the other person is, and how much they truly care about knowing you. It's more polite to pretend that we do, but not a lot of people truly will.
Anyways, discussions about the social realm of things! The kind of thing that never gets resolved amirite. :happyblush
It is kind of strange but I love reading about peoples fetishes on a place like this especially when they are passionate about it but when people would communicate that stuff to me in real life I would be like "oversharing much"? There is in my mind just a big difference about communicating in a anonymous form and communicating with your 'real-life persona' but that is probably just me being brainwashed by societies norms
Perfect way to prove that sometimes you don't need a lot of words to say complex things.
