In here it makes sense, of course. We can all see it only takes me a vague excuse to start pretending I have things to say about it. We're on a porn website, so porn is usually where the conversation goes to. It works the same for the internet as a whole, actually.
It would also makes sense to talk about it with your boy/girlfriend, or maybe your closest friend. But even though I have quite the curiosity about sex, I don't really need to know how everyone I know is sexing one another. And that is kind of the trend that's rising, in a weird way, with the PC culture and the acceptance of those many genders and all the rest. And, in case someone a mite jumpy is reading this, it's extremely easy to associate me with the LGBT community and many others "minorities".
It's good that you're open about it and confident and so on, but just because you can talk about it doesn't mean you have to. When you're talking to someone, you have to take into account that you're not talking to an exact replica of yourself but an actual person with their own personnality, views on things, and all the things that makes a person what they are. Maybe you're interested in what others are attracted to, but that's not the case for everyone. Not even to mention that not everyone will accept everything you say by being like "hey, that's cool, we all have our own fantasies, no one can rationalize that kind of shit, no one has a choice, no one can judge". Most likely they will say something like "VADE RETRO, may God judge your unholy choice".
I think the biggest difference is that you can filter everything on the internet, something the movies about cyberbullying always forget. Many a time I was like "whoops, nope, not my fetish, I'm so out of here", and I'm out of here in a flash. Real life situations are not that easy to deal with, nowhere close. It's riddled with codes and behaviours you're meant to adopt, which is something that didn't carry over to the internet.
But I agree with everything you say afterwards, of course. If it's the subject at hand then that's fine. It's logical, really.
Yeah, because not everyone follow the same philosophy. For instance, I have self-inflicted scars all over my right arm, which doesn't bother me in any way, but it did bother one of my boyfriend (long ago) who basically had a stroke when he saw them. I usually wear long sleeves and I never mentionned it because I really don't mind them enough to be thinking about mentionning them (it's true I assure you is not bullshit). But when he was faced with the "dark side", I could see how well he could deal with it. Which was terribly.
Again, it depends on how good a friend the other person is, and how much they truly care about knowing you. It's more polite to pretend that we do, but not a lot of people truly will.
