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I'm 99% sure that it's because you could have stopped at the ten first words and still have made a true assertion.
Kink vs Fetish
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IBreedWives
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do you not see how insecure you sound? you cant even view porn with a male in it because it makes you uncomfortable?
lesbian porn does nothing for me since im not a lesbian and have no interest in watching two women do whatever the hell it is they do in lesbian porn, i would rather just look at pics of two individual hot chicks
Geigi
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IBreedWives
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what do you think im vision impaired? that i have only come across your family members while out and about?
suprisedcrankyface
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Ahh i get it, you are a look don't touch kinda guy
Geigi
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Perfect for having OF.Ahh i get it, you are a look don't touch kinda guy
Jaike
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Yo papa's so straight, he interrogates men about their sexuality* at length before shaking hands to avoid gay handholding.
The original topic was pretty interesting though, I always thought a kink was more like an understood, grounded taste while a fetish was more like a lizard brain thing that defies reason.
* essential subjects: futa, traps, twinks, bara, trans
The original topic was pretty interesting though, I always thought a kink was more like an understood, grounded taste while a fetish was more like a lizard brain thing that defies reason.
I'm sure there's a truth to that, but "foot kink" just sounds wrong because of the other stuff kink can mean. Like a veteran who'd say: "I used to fight in Nam, but then I got a foot kink, now I'm cripple." It sounds less wrong when it's about more abstract things, or at least stuff that isn't supposed to have a certain functional shape.
* essential subjects: futa, traps, twinks, bara, trans
A lot of people will conjure up vibes-based meanings for those words that end up being arbitrary or vague, but it's actually pretty straightforward. Fetish-worship started as religious practice that incorporated specific symbology. Christ on the cross, temples of Athena, a statue of the buddha - all of those would be fetishes. For sexuality it's the same deal. A fetish involves a specific material thing that gets you aroused. Leather, high heels, maid outfits, fireman uniforms and things along those lines would all be fetishes. Another way to think of it is that the thing in itself can be hot to you regardless of the context. It's your own libido that sexualizes it.
Kinks are more psychological. If there's a specific scenario that triggers an intense arousal in you then that would be a kink. With a kink the whole performance is explicitly sexual, so all the details are dedicated to telling the exact erotic story that gets you off. Unlike a fetish where the trigger needs to be physically present, kinks can play out entirely within someone's imagination. If the line ever feels vague, just ask yourself whether the circumstances are what's important (probably a kink) or the physical presence of some particular thing is important (probably a fetish).
And that's really all there is to it.
Kinks are more psychological. If there's a specific scenario that triggers an intense arousal in you then that would be a kink. With a kink the whole performance is explicitly sexual, so all the details are dedicated to telling the exact erotic story that gets you off. Unlike a fetish where the trigger needs to be physically present, kinks can play out entirely within someone's imagination. If the line ever feels vague, just ask yourself whether the circumstances are what's important (probably a kink) or the physical presence of some particular thing is important (probably a fetish).
And that's really all there is to it.
Oh ffs guys
Can't we have one topic about this stuff where no one derails it to talk about how totally-not-gay he is
Can't we have one topic about this stuff where no one derails it to talk about how totally-not-gay he is
For the same reason that certain people have to make a big stink about whether or not something or someone is gay: men find the whole notion emasculating and have to draw attention to themselves as they try to re-establishing their masculinity by overreacting to it.
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Wasn't the point of the futa so guys could see basically a girl with a dick pounding other girls? Isn't futa a lessee gay?
I enjoy it because I like watching guys wrap themselves into a knot to explain how not gay they are.
Geigi
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The more you try to rebuff and explain to people that you aren't gay...I enjoy it because I like watching guys wrap themselves into a knot to explain how not gay they are.
Gotta love the "Isn't X a little gay?" threads where X usually is Futa, NTR, Femboys or trans women. It's almost like a train wreck in slow motion happening. It's gross, bloody, almost inhuman but you can't stop looking at it XDI enjoy it because I like watching guys wrap themselves into a knot to explain how not gay they are.
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Dare you to post something that doesn't involve NTR.why is ntr the most hated fetish/kink? can anybody answer that?
There's a difference too between most hated and generating the most controversy or hating comments. I think more people hate scat. Prominence and visibility matters.
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Well, I explicitly voiced my conviction that you never ever crossed one of them in your life. So, I don't know for your visual impairment, but you clearly have difficulties when it come to understanding.what do you think im vision impaired? that i have only come across your family members while out and about?
What do you think exactly? That lesbians magically grow a special sexual organ when they have sex?
They touch, they caress, they finger, they lick and suck. Everything a normally constituted straight man want to do to a hot girl. Reason why seeing it done to a girl, especially by someone who don't have a dick, is way more straight for a man, than a closeup on a pounding dick.
As for the thing that you never witnessed outside of those videos, it's called "an orgasm".
Geigi
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Except MWPA78.
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I said "normally constituted" and "straight", doesn't this disqualify him twice?
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? You seem in suplex mode today, did your boss finally listen and get you some trappist beers instead of that château wine?
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To address the OP's question: A kink is something I like, a fetish is something I can't help but like. Probably not accurate, but it's how I've always looked at it.
And a random question that somewhat fits part of this conversation. Why can some dudes watch futa porn 24 hours a day, but get uncomfortable if they watch actual trans porn?
And a random question that somewhat fits part of this conversation. Why can some dudes watch futa porn 24 hours a day, but get uncomfortable if they watch actual trans porn?