Kink vs Fetish

anne O'nymous

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You seem in suplex mode today,
I Past the week-end cleaning and ordering the house, then today watching guys change the radiators... It's not impossible that it have had some effect on me...


did your boss finally listen and get you some trappist beers instead of that château wine?
I asked for the opposite, a raise to buy more prestigious Bordeaux. I mean a bottle of Chateau Lafite Rothschild cost more than 150€, 15 times than a prestigious trappist at equivalent volume.
 

MissCougar

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To address the OP's question: A kink is something I like, a fetish is something I can't help but like. Probably not accurate, but it's how I've always looked at it.

And a random question that somewhat fits part of this conversation. Why can some dudes watch futa porn 24 hours a day, but get uncomfortable if they watch actual trans porn?
Is a femboy more or less gay than futa? I think someone should make a gayness chart so brave totally not gay men can avoid the things that cross the line.

It's amusing that gay has so many nuances, but lesbianism is basically pretty straightforward to what it is.

But do any of these cross the lesbian line? I don't consider futa to be lesbian for example. But I may be wrong!
 

tanstaafl

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I think someone should make a gayness chart
lol, despite the fact that there are numerically limited options for the chart, somehow we'd manage to create an completely individual chart for every single person here...caveats in parentheses in every cell.
 

MissCougar

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A question I have posed many times. The conclusion I can come to is "depends on how it's written".
So if the futa has a male attitude it's gay and a female attitude its lesbian? Can they decide which attitude they have on a day and straddle the line like a pole stripper spinning for the last $20 of the night?

lol, despite the fact that there are numerically limited options for the chart, somehow we'd manage to create an completely individual chart for every single person here...caveats in parentheses in every cell.
You just need to branch it out, like how gay is NTR if you see the cum in your wife and do her? What if it's an accident? What if you enjoy it? What if you eat it?

Is eating another man's cum gay even if you never sex the man? Is eating your own cum gay?

Though that's on you, I think cum tastes pretty terrible but I'm still curious where these critical path choices land on the scale and brave strong men need to know where and how to eat cum and when that kink/fetish may cross the line. Can't get accidentally gay afterall. :ROFLMAO:
 

tanstaafl

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You just need to branch it out, like how gay is NTR if you see the cum in your wife and do her? What if it's an accident? What if you enjoy it? What if you eat it?

Is eating another man's cum gay even if you never sex the man? Is eating your own cum gay?

Though that's on you, I think cum tastes pretty terrible but I'm still curious where these critical path choices land on the scale and brave strong men need to know where and how to eat cum and when that kink/fetish may cross the line. Can't get accidentally gay afterall. :ROFLMAO:
The standard answer for all of those is "yes". I don't make up the rules.
 
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So if the futa has a male attitude it's gay and a female attitude its lesbian? Can they decide which attitude they have on a day and straddle the line like a pole stripper spinning for the last $20 of the night?
More so how womanly the futa is written, and the how. Is it one of those "magic dick appears suddenly" scenarios? That's closer to lesbian imo. Or was the character born a futa? That seems to get farther away from lusciously light lesbo loving.

As for the gay part, futa is auto-turbo gay regardless. Their mere presence turns even the straightest man into a flaming homo.
 

Count Morado

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From what I hear the rules have relaxed quite a bit, but back in the 80s, 90s, and early 00's when I was single the rules were much more strict and enforced, lol.
Oh, and let's not even get into ...
Or ...
Or even ! OHMYGODWONTSOMEONETHINKOFTHECHILDREN
 

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Oh, and let's not even get into ...
Or ...
Or even ! OHMYGODWONTSOMEONETHINKOFTHECHILDREN
These people have never seen Top Gun and it shows, smh. The homo tension in that movie is legendary.
 
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