Recommending Lesbian Protagonist Games List (My Version)

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Hey, I'm usually a lurker, but I saw there was a big discussion here about sexuality changes after transition and the like, so I thought I would offer some field research and my own personal experience.

Friends and many other trans women I asked say that for them it's not really that their sexuality changed. It's more so that they finally allowed themself to experience heavily repressed attractions that were buried deep under a lot of internalized homophobia/transphobia.

I think that in my own experience, my sexuality hasn't really changed either. I used to define myslef as a bisexual and now, for the most part, I tell people I'm a lesbian. Though I still find some men attractive, I think that the power dynamic between a man and a woman (especially a trans one) in a straight relationship is somewhat offputting to me.

It is also important to note that attraction is not only about what gender you want to sleep with but also how you want to be treated in a potential relationship. For example, I didn't date any women before my transition. I would always lose interest once they would show interest in me. I think it was because the moment I let myself imagine what that relationship could look like, the thought of being 'the man' in the relationship always left me with a feeling of dysphoria.

So yeah... to summarize, sexual and romantic attractions are complicated, deeply individual, and fluid things, and with the mental task that is accepting who you truly are, they are pretty liable to change/unveil even if just a little.
 

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Hey, I'm usually a lurker, but I saw there was a big discussion here about sexuality changes after transition and the like, so I thought I would offer some field research and my own personal experience.

Friends and many other trans women I asked say that for them it's not really that their sexuality changed. It's more so that they finally allowed themself to experience heavily repressed attractions that were buried deep under a lot of internalized homophobia/transphobia.

I think that in my own experience, my sexuality hasn't really changed either. I used to define myslef as a bisexual and now, for the most part, I tell people I'm a lesbian. Though I still find some men attractive, I think that the power dynamic between a man and a woman (especially a trans one) in a straight relationship is somewhat offputting to me.

It is also important to note that attraction is not only about what gender you want to sleep with but also how you want to be treated in a potential relationship. For example, I didn't date any women before my transition. I would always lose interest once they would show interest in me. I think it was because the moment I let myself imagine what that relationship could look like, the thought of being 'the man' in the relationship always left me with a feeling of dysphoria.

So yeah... to summarize, sexual and romantic attractions are complicated, deeply individual, and fluid things, and with the mental task that is accepting who you truly are, they are pretty liable to change/unveil even if just a little.
Correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds less like your sexuality changed, and more like you were able to truly embrace your sexuality only after you were in the gender identity you felt was right. As you say, your dysphoria held you back from embracing your desires.
 
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I means there aren't a lot of Discussion. It is just one dude is as stubborn as some serial killer that want to hide their crime but actually super obvious.
 
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Correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds less like your sexuality changed, and more like you were able to truly embrace your sexuality only after you were in the gender identity you felt was right. As you say, your dysphoria held you back from embracing your desires.
Exactly, I think that in most cases a change in attraction after transition is more psychological than an actual change in your brain chemistry. But it's also important to remember that transgender experiences are not monolithic. Everybody has their own unique relationships with their sexuality and their experiences might contradict and be completely different from anything I've told you.
 

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The main character in "The Enigmatic Domain" can be female or futa, which you choose at the beginning, and all the love interests are female. However it's been quite a while since I tried it.
 
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Did you people ever check Itch.Io?
There are some good stuff there. It is not an Erotic Game but the some of the Art is Great.
Like today I just check it and find this.
 
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Hey, I'm usually a lurker, but I saw there was a big discussion here about sexuality changes after transition and the like, so I thought I would offer some field research and my own personal experience.

Friends and many other trans women I asked say that for them it's not really that their sexuality changed. It's more so that they finally allowed themself to experience heavily repressed attractions that were buried deep under a lot of internalized homophobia/transphobia.

I think that in my own experience, my sexuality hasn't really changed either. I used to define myslef as a bisexual and now, for the most part, I tell people I'm a lesbian. Though I still find some men attractive, I think that the power dynamic between a man and a woman (especially a trans one) in a straight relationship is somewhat offputting to me.

It is also important to note that attraction is not only about what gender you want to sleep with but also how you want to be treated in a potential relationship. For example, I didn't date any women before my transition. I would always lose interest once they would show interest in me. I think it was because the moment I let myself imagine what that relationship could look like, the thought of being 'the man' in the relationship always left me with a feeling of dysphoria.

So yeah... to summarize, sexual and romantic attractions are complicated, deeply individual, and fluid things, and with the mental task that is accepting who you truly are, they are pretty liable to change/unveil even if just a little.
Honestly, I'm completely in favor of any kind of discussion about changing gender, sexuality and the rights of trans people, etc... But in real life!
In the game, I want to see exclusively pussy in pussy, no futa, dicks or "oh I consider myself a woman but I have a huge dick between my legs"... None of this I consider a "lesbian game". There's futa, for me, it's not lesbian and that's it.
 
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Honestly, I'm completely in favor of any kind of discussion about changing gender, sexuality and the rights of trans people, etc... But in real life!
In the game, I want to see exclusively pussy in pussy, no futa, dicks or "oh I consider myself a woman but I have a huge dick between my legs"... None of this I consider a "lesbian game". There's futa, for me, it's not lesbian and that's it.

Right, let's break it down one by one.

First of all, I'm just going to say that I'm not a fan of using the word "futa" as anything other than another word for hermaphrodite. I feel like it's more often than not used to say, "It's a woman with a dick but not the gross trans kind you see on the internet because I don't like those." And while an intersex person who identifies as a woman can be born with both ovaries and male genitalia... and, an argument could be made that they are referring to people of that kind... I doubt. It feels more like a form of erasure. A magic word to dismiss any consideration of the real world from the one you created. But relax; I'm not calling for a change or crying injustice. I get that this is a fact of the industry. It's just something to keep in my mind.

Second of all, your want to only see, and I quote, "pussy in pussy" is valid. Not everybody is attracted to every genitalia, and it doesn't make a person transphobic if they don't want to be with a trans person who has something different in their pants than what they are looking for. But it is important to separate that from sexuality. If a trans woman, regardless of her genitalia, is attracted to other women, she is a lesbian, and when she is in a relationship with another woman, she is in a lesbian relationship. Now, I understand by your banner and pfp that this is your mission (Which is, I guess, why you replied to my comment about sexuality changes after transition with this completely unrelated subject.), but though you might find a penis to be appalling; some of us, who are also "enjoyers" of the lesbian subgenre, either want to see it or don't care for it. Your version of what is a correct use of the lesbian tag is personal, and I honestly don't see why you feel the need to assert it on the entire site, given that you can just not download any game with the futa tag.

Thirdly and lastly. This could have been unintentional or just the way you talk about the topic... But I feel like I have to make it clear. Trans rights are not up for debate.
 
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Did I like kill your dog or something?
??? I am simply saying that unfortunately the game is not a lesbian game. although it's up to the thread owner to decide, I was just "informing" since this is supposed to be a lesbian games only thread.

nothing against you, just again, this is supposed to be a lesbian list.
 
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