the fans started complaining about "used goods". It got so bad that the author had to shoehorn an explicit explanation about why she was still a virgin.
Now, I know it's different in LiL because Yuki is both a mother and used to run with the yakuza, but the japanese audience have certain, let's say, expectations of genres. And even with Yuki's past, there's a certain out-of-sight, out-of-mind mentality that would've been shattered with this update
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Based japs aside, the comparison isn't nearly comparable still.
IRL, nobody is the same after seeing someone they consider romantically being physical with others, let alone when rape's involved.
If an average husband, western or not, found a tape of the
gangbang of his wife, you wouldn't expect him to shrug it off, let alone if it's a
gangrape.
It's as much of a realistic expectation as Yuki being a virgin at her age.
"Out of sight, out of mind" is a legit compromise we have even in the west.
Again, just because you married someone that you know had ex-boyfriends, it doesn't mean seeing a recording of it would mean nothing to him.Call it "insecurity" if you want, it is what it is.