I remember Selebus talking about point 3 during the first updates (IIRC it was before the first beach updated, and, yeah, that time he wrote that the side girls would get that as well) did he talk about it more recently? I mean, at least in the middle of chapter 2. The level of "demonization" (as he himself called it in Molly's bad day) about those relationships the VN reached makes really hard to think that he didn't change idea.
Well, it was a few months ago, on the Homies 2022, or maybe a month before it, when the nominations was announced, not sure, it was an "after party" so to speak, my memory is kinda blurry by this point, but he talked about purity routes there and that those would also be in some sort of the girls point of view. I mean, the events that are "behind the scenes" that are going on right now, their thoughts and conflicts that we, as a male and their love interest, not able to see, since girls dont wish us to see those. They smile in front of us, but what kind of turmoil is going on inside is not really what we were told.