I think you're talking about what I wrote. then I will answer.
I did not fight with DEV, nor do I ask him to change his story to please me, I am exposing my opinion on a discussion of a topic.
About virgin and NTR, I'm saying that I don't care if an LI is a virgin or not, so I have no interest in knowing how she lost her virginity, I don't need to see her getting fucked to reach that conclusion. And as I’ve been saying, in my opinion if you say you don’t have an NTR and you’re going to show us your LI’s or future LI being fucked by another guy (even if you don’t have a relationship with her) it’s the same thing as an NTR (I know that this definition is not correct, I’m not an idiot), and like me many others understand it that way.
I hope I was clearer, I don't speak English and I use a translator, so it may sound a bit confusing.