So, when I'm in the work point, should I Say Let her handle easy things or just ignore??? Damn, I'm even better in my goddamn real time relationships...
Are you still at the point where she dies every time? If so it's because one of the files remember's your choices (the one where you told her to fucking rest when she's got a cold, rather than nurse her. Seriously, nurse her. Please).
Anyways, back to my original point, the game remembers your choice (I don't think the other choices matter as much, they're just for raising affection) but I don't remember the exact file that is making it remember. Best shot - Redownload the whole game and re-apply the english patch (you probably still have the zip folder lying around hopefully) or try deleting the file 'startup.tjs' in the data folder, as that's my best guess to the file that's causing it. (Haven't tested, so don't blame me if it doesn't work).
To the question you just asked, it doesn't matter too much although I suggest let her handle the work. She feels bad about not doing anything after food and shelter and simply wants to help, so let her rather than make her feel like she's not needed.
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@Manolo97