I believe you are constantly confusing scenes and animations. Scenes are short scenarios written by vinfamy (or moders), with, well scenes talking places. In scene, there can be sex (mostly due players choices). During the sex, you can chose few different animations.
Now, speaking of facts, there is 16 scenes in BDSM module. Out of them 4 require submissive player to be female (or futanari). Rest 12 are agnostic, but it reqires bondage clothing. And game doesn't have bondage clothing for men, like I said. When it comes to animations, there is no actual animation of man dominating woman (yes there is rough anal, prone bone, missionary etc, but those are fully applicable to vanilla sex). On countary there are femdom animations. Also, there is female spanking female animation.