I do remember a Discord screenshot of Innoxia saying "I'm a dude btw lol" or something like that, but it's probably buried somewhere. Like, probably for years. It was a the relative beginning of development, so, not in a very close past.
Personally, I couldn't care less about Innoxia's gender, but to be fair, it wouldn't surprise me that part of the white knights trying to do some damage control every time there is a delay or failure do it mostly because they crave social interaction with a female. Which is sad.
As for the game, same old, same old. Great concept, has been very fun to follow for the first year of development, back when progress was fast, but now it's kind of a joke.
I don't think Innoxia deliberately wants to milk the cash cow, to be honest. Probably more about wanting to be sole creator of this project despite time/skill constraints.
She had enough revenue through Patreon to hire at least partial-time help with dev, and never did. That was her biggest mistake imho. Don't know how much Subscribestar brings now though.