I get that, and I generally don't. But I'm one of those weirdos who self-insert, and I try to avoid being a needles asshole to people who don't deserve it. Stealing wives and girlfriends from their abusive partners I have absolutely no issues with, but fucking over normal guys is just a dick move that feels really out of character a lot of the time. Like MC being a hero to nearly everyone he meets, but then being a selfish dick for no reason. Yea i know that in the twins mom situation there are extenuating circumstances, but I mean in general.