I found a what I thought was a bug, but it turns out just to be a UI issue:
When I'm at the party with Queen Bee Becky, I give her one mixed drink and then dance with her. I get the option to grab Jay's ass at the end (but can't because I don't have the "open" lifestyle). After I click "nah", the game seems to be frozen on the shot of Jay looking back at us.
However - I just realized that for some reason it just went into "hide the UI" mode. Once I right-clicked the screen, I saw the option to hit "thanks for the dance" and continue. (I wouldn't have bothered typing all of this but I figured it out halfway through.) This is on a Mac FWIW