I really want to love this game! Art is amazing, and its funny and weird and a bit sad. The delays are... whatever, seems basically true of every AVN out there that it takes forever to get something out the door, and I imagine drawn art isn't any better than posing and rendering something in Daz.
The devs discord is an utter nightmare though. 12 friends and family form an impenetrable wall that not a soul is going to get through to ask a single question or interact with the dev in any way. Plus the usual crowd of truly embarrassing simps. Recommend avoid it like the plague, can pretty much get anything useful off the twitter anyway.
The Devs interact very regularly with the community and we go out of my way to try to respond to everything that we can. I literally hunted down this post after someone showed me a picture of it this morning. First thing I did after work. Tracked it down by the font.
I understand the frustrations with the delays though. It is taking a long time, I'm really frustrated too. It seems like something always comes up, and we have to work on the game in our free time between our real life jobs. We don't make money to be full time developers.
I'm not sure when you joined, maybe it was a night when the VC was full? It does get busy sometimes. I find the final fantasy xiv stuff kinda impenetrable as well.
DMs are open too.
(Though any further questions please refer to discord or twitter. Narrowing channels of comms I have to check everyday helps save time for the game)