I can understand your feelings about this game. I was disappointed also. I should also say this is the ONLY post I have ever made with ANY kind of negative comment which should speak volumes.
If you have stayed with this game for 5 years, you do not have to even mention the fact that you are tolerant.
Sadly with this update it seems that the MC has now nearly become a sideline character while in "normal" form.
As for Meg, during the development of this game every one of my suggestions was ignored for her. I guess this is what the majority wanted.
The rest of the most normal characters are now also ignored for the most part. If anything happens with them, it is left from episode 1.
You can supposedly change nearly any setting for kink content. I have no doubt that if you were to change even one setting in the kinks section the game will nearly stop functioning and the story would break. I was a problem before in Episode 1 when only a couple of settings could be changed (I tried it to see what would happen).
As for being to old for this, I was too old by the time the dev was born
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