All well said, but I would argue that it is totally straightforward. I agree with KingEddy (based on his example) that this is a broad phenomenon, not particular to LfA. It goes like this: The, acceptable to me because of the problematic tag system, question (from all sexualities) "how much gay in this game" when there exists a gay tag, in order to find out if one wants to invest time in it or not. Another thing to do is to play it and post one's critique. And here emerges the issue. There are a lot of ways to criticise a game and, when it comes to the topic "gayness", let alone a fully M/M game, it's as if some people would prefer this to be a site for straight only games. At the very least, I myself feel uncomfortable sometimes. So, I support the "exasperation" comments because if left unanswered, it's as if we don't exist. But we do. We want M/M games (and better tags). And if the developer chooses midway to change the theme of the game, good for them I guess. We, the gamers, have to cope with it. Or comment on it in a non toxic way (which exists). But tbh to this date I haven't seen a post "your game used to have some gay scenes, but this update is only straight, mimimi". (I stole the mimimi from KingEddy, loved it!). To be clear though, I believe that there isn't any malice behind (the majority) of such posts.
Sorry for the English, it's not my mother tongue