So this genre is not for you, duh. If it is not your fetish doesn't mean it is bad, it is bad only for you.
It's not the idea I dislike, it's the execution.
The genre itself is plagued with poor writing and lack of interesting and or believable characters that you can actually get behind. The victims are usually dumb-as-rock doormats who almost always end up as cum-dumpsters, even if you "break free", it feels like they hardly deserved it. That's not satisfying IMO. It's like watching the village idiot being showered by miracles and good fortune.
This is why I have a hard time empathizing with them - if I'm going to let myself get corrupted or even blackmailed by some asshole I would at least like to give them a run for their money.
Likewise, if the women
actually had some back-bone in them it would make breaking them (as in, playing from the villain's perspective) much more interesting and rewarding. If you're concerned about watching things unfold from their prespective you could always just use mind-reading abilities, discover their diaries or something...
If what we have now is the pinnacle of what the genre represents (or could represent) then you can definitely have it all for yourself. It could use more quality and variety though.
(PS: And please don't tell me to "bugger off" just because I don't like the way things are now. Trolls and outright haters with nothing useful to say probably deserve it but I like to think I'm a little above that...)